That night, I am reminded of a lesson I seem to need to relearn every couple of months: When I let girls pick me up, they are not necessarily bottoms. And what I want, what I really really want, is a femme who is a bottom, who wants to submit.
Sinclair Sexsmith, via View From The Top: It’s Like 10,000 Femme Tops When All You Need Is A Bottom
Jessica Williams would be the type of friend that would tell me to my face that my shirt is open and everyone can see my bra as plainly and swiftly as telling someone her drink order.
I like to tell people, and now you, that making friends in adulthood needs reframing. Instead of talking about how hard it is, we should instead talk about how this is an opportunity to be free from proximity defining friendships.
Ali’s here to help you make friends as a queer adult. And she’s super excited about it.