Making better porn at home, whether it’s okay to have sex when you’re staying on someone’s couch, queer non-monogamy, the history of polyamory and more in this week’s NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday. (feature image from The Militant Baker)
‘You look very… pretty… today,’ Stahma says, setting the tea aside. She draws her fingers through the dark fall of Kenya’s hair, marvelling at the contrast. Kenya’s skin is warm; her cheeks flush pinker at Stahma’s words.
'Pretty for a human?’ Kenya asks.
Time to hit the road with Button & Bly! In the latest episode of their lesbian travel webseries, Bly takes you to Palm Springs. Tune in!
Look at these f*cking FIFA Women’s World Cup Alternative Lifestyle Haircuts, y’all. JUST LOOK AT ‘EM.
Jade and Althea first lock eyes during Gabe and Pearl’s wedding, when Jade is walking down the aisle as part of the wedding procession. They both immediately feel a connection. Later, they have a series of run-ins that escalate into friendship that escalates into something more complicated. Jade is set to marry David, a member of another prominent Chinese Filipino family, and their eventual marriage is foretold to bring great fortune to both families. David, as far as I can tell, enjoys being a Nice Guy and looking worried while wearing collared shirts.
I think one of the coolest things about a queer wedding (and especially queer women’s weddings) is how much of the “traditional” stuff you can just totally ignore if you want to. Everyone’s already expecting it to be different from a hetero wedding, so you can really do whatever you want. That definitely includes the bachelorette party and all the ‘traditions’ associated with it. If you end up deciding that doing a bachelorette party together is what you want, I have confidence that you’ll be able to tweak the plans enough to respect your different needs for attention.
We’re trying to balance being responsible and reasonable with being… not reckless, but rational? Are those all synonyms? It feels reckless, to keep the same donor, but on the other hand — if this were a male partner’s sperm, it’s not like I would trade him in for the hope of an improved model, knowing that the new version could also be a dud, so to speak. It feels like… a reasonable risk. As the wife points out, we did everything ‘right’ the last time, and we know how that turned out, so maybe we should let go of some of the control this time and let things be. I vacillate between that and 'must control or else I’ll blame myself if something happens again.’
Sometimes, girls take girls to the prom. If this gallery proves anything, it’s that it’s damn adorable when they do.
Remember that really important thing you were supposed to do? Oh, right, you didn’t, because you forgot. Don’t worry! You’re not alone! Come tell Gabby all about it in our FRIDAY OPEN THREAD.
We’re all staying up all night. Everyone’s in the other bathroom. We wrote BUS NOTES! Everyone’s going home. It sucks. We were gonna do Ouija board and ask Kurt Cobain if Courtney Love killed him, but considering Noreen went to bed already I don’t think it’s gonna happen.
