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Playlist: The Worst Sex Playlist Of All Time

Playlist: The Worst Sex Playlist Of All Time

As you’ve maybe figured out by now, sex is sort of hilarious. You’re both naked with all your meat and cheese out there in the open air, you’re rolling around pawing at each other like animals on a bed or smashed into a bar bathroom or precariously threatening the composure of your sofa cushions. You’re sweating, sticking your fingers and/or brightly colored toys into each other’s holes, your hair is fucked up, liquid is pouring out of you — it’s quite a scene, really. IT’S HILARIOUS.

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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Bootie

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Bootie

The Bootie is the perfect beginner butt plug. Also it’s really cute.

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Get You Off All Five Ways

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Get You Off All Five Ways

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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+ Spanko’s has a breakdown of some types of possible spanking, such as role play and punishment, that details what each scenario entails from both the spanker and spankee:

“Many who are looking to explore spanking and discipline do so for a variety of reasons. For simple sexual foreplay – or to go back to a more steady role in the house where…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Strap On First

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Strap On First

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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+ If you’re into (or into trying) g-spot play, Kinkly has some advice:

“Some people find they’re not interested in G-spot stimulation, or don’t like how it feels. Other people will tell you it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to them. That’s what makes sexuality so fascinating (and experimenting so much fun!). So, just…

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The Kind of Sex We’re Talking About Today, Part Two: Toeing

The Kind of Sex We’re Talking About Today, Part Two: Toeing

Hello there doe-eyed friend, this post isn’t safe for work, unless you work from home at your dining room table listening to NPR and eating veggie quesadillas that you call Riese-adillas because they’re just the ones Riese made for you last summer, like some of us. Moving on, do you have sex? What kind of sex do you have? What kind of sex are you talking about today? Today we’re talking about…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Too Much Sex To Make A Clever Headline

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Too Much Sex To Make A Clever Headline

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+ Sex workers can be really funny, and at Tits and Sass Lane Champagne discusses the role of humor in sex work activism:

“In a world that is awash in grisly tales of the sex trade and impossibly bad information about sex work and the people that do it, sometimes I’m afraid that our humor might be perceived as callous.…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sexting With Only Emoji

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sexting With Only Emoji

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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by Spencer Charles

+ At the Hairpin, Lindsay King-Miller answers questions about your girlfriend’s therapist and processing processing, successful long-distance relationships, femme-femme sexual attraction and more:

“That said, for the most part, the key to a successful relationship is the same when you live a continent apart as it is when…

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It Appears I Have Joined A Masturbation Cult

It Appears I Have Joined A Masturbation Cult

Last Wednesday I walked into an event space in SoHo, sweaty, tired, a liiitle bit tipsy (perhaps explaining the sweaty fatigue), halfway expecting to run away screaming with my pants down. Literally.

I was at a TurnON event run by the people at OneTaste, who help people engage with their inner sexy and to be present, honest, and orgasmic in every corner of their life. They also teach people how…

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When It Comes To Orgasms, Research Shows Lesbians Are Tops

When It Comes To Orgasms, Research Shows Lesbians Are Tops

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“Orgasm,” begins the newest paper from the researchers the Kinsey Institute, “is characterized by subjective feelings of intense sensation and pleasure, including a sudden discharge of accumulated erotic tension at sexual climax and a temporarily altered state of consciousness.” It’s a rather dry opening to some pretty juicy new research about how men and women in…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Your Boobs

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Your Boobs

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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+ AlterNet has nine actually useful relationship tips, including giving compliments, making each other feel special and valued, being independent, being interesting and more:

“‘In my study, when couples said they were in a relationship rut or felt bored, they were less happy over time,’ says Orbuch. So escape…

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50 Shades of Non-consent: Editing BDSM Erotica as a Queer Top

50 Shades of Non-consent: Editing BDSM Erotica as a Queer Top

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“Just let me take care of you,” the hero whispers, choking back a growl as he pushes the heroine down face first on the bed.

“You are what we call a natural sub,” he says, tracing the paddle across her ass. “Are you ready to submit for my pleasure?”

The heroine nods her head shyly, her cheeks apple-bright. “Yes,” she says, “I want to belong only to you.”

When

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Wearing A Bra

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Wearing A Bra

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+ What happens if you try to work your way through Cosmo‘s lesbian sex positions?:

“Since I am a masochist and an overachiever, I wanted to start with some of the most difficult positions suggested. Thus, we started with “Over the Edge” (#27), which involves a fairly standard grinding of the vaginas, but with the added…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Soak The Sheets

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Soak The Sheets

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+ Focusing more on your body and erotic thinking can help you orgasm, if you want to orgasm more:

“The researchers did not expect that the cognitive aspect of orgasm in women would be as important as the results suggested, said study author Pascal De Sutter, a professor at the department of sexology and…

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sleeping In

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sleeping In

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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+ At the Toast, Donna J. Drucker looks at what Masters of Sex got right and wrong about Virginia E. Johnson:

“Masters had the professional credentials, drive, and passion for discovery to move the sex research forward, but he had little of the friendliness and calming…

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Interview With An Ex: Fiona

Interview With An Ex: Fiona

Welcome to Interviews With My Ex-Girlfriend Ex-One-Night Stand, in which Autostraddle writers get back in touch with their ex-girlfriends ex-one-night stands to ask them Five Simple Questions:  (these questions are specific to one-night stands!) why did we end up sleeping together at all, did anything about our sexual encounter surprise you, what do you think the soundtrack to our sexual…

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