You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex
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Welcome to You Need Help! Where you’ve got a problem and yo, we solve it. Or we at least try.
Q: My girlfriend and I broke up about four months ago. She was the first girl I was ever with, and we were together for almost three years. About halfway through our relationship, she admitted to me that she had been “faking it” every time we had sex. She told me…
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Stronic Drei
AUTOSTRADDLE ANONYMOUS SEX TOY REVIEW #48:
It’s our 48th Autostraddle Anonymous Sex Toy Review! Over the last few years, sex toy companies and stores have propositioned us to review their toys in exchange for, you know, their toys.
This week, one of our anonymous reviewers tried out the Stronic Drei from Fun Factory, available at Babeland.
- Material: 100% silicone + base
- Color: turquoise or pink
- S…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How You Get The Girl
Welcome to NSFW Sunday!
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+ You’re probably sick of straight people asking you to explain terms like heteronormativity, top/bottom/switch, butch/femme and scissoring:
“Scissoring, while not as popular as your precious lesbian porn would have you believe, is nonetheless a real thing. It involves…
You Need Help: So Your Girlfriend Never Ever Ever Wants To Have Sex
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Welcome to You Need Help! Where you’ve got a problem and yo, we solve it. Or we at least try.
Q:My girlfriend and I have been together for eleven years now, and she doesn’t want to have sex with me. It’s not as though she wants to have sex with anyone else either, but her sexuality is very personal to her and she is more interested in masturbating than being with…
Lots Of Straight Girls Wanna Have Lesbian Sex, Yet Another Study Shows
As any lesbian who’s been repeatedly asked to serve as a human chemistry set for a straight woman seeking her first lesbian sexual experience can tell you, “not being gay” and “wanting gay sex” are hardly exclusive qualities. There’s even an entire book about it — Jen Sincero’s 2005 The Straight Girl’s Guide To Sleeping with Chicks, which tells straight women that ladysex “allows us to break free…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Wearing Your Shirt, Probably Not Giving It Back
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+ Anna Pulley writes about what it’s like to watch episodes for the (queer feminist) Crash Pad Series shooting:
“As a feminist, I’ve found there’s often a negotiation that occurs when watching most porn, especially if it involves any kind of heavy aggression or degradation. Because, let’s face it, our…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Kiss You For One Hundred Years
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+ Consensual non-monogamy has been the subject of a bunch of studies, some of which have found that people in them experience less jealousy, are more responsible about safety, report equal or higher relationship satisfaction as monogamous folks and more:
“Desire for (non)monogamy exists on…
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil: Or How I Divorced Jesus and Learned to Love Sex
I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride;
I have gathered my myrrh along with my balsam.
I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey;
I have drunk my milk and my wine.
– Song of Solomon 5:1I married my husband when I was 12 years old on a muggy summer night in the church where I grew up. My family had chosen him for me. We’d been introduced. He liked animals, magic tricks, and talking circles…
Happy International Fisting Day! Here’s Some Willfully Misinterpreted Lesbian Poetry
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Today is International Fisting Day! A day for spreading the joy and knowledge of fisting throughout the internet so those who aren’t familiar with it can learn and those who are can fist bump.
Jiz Lee, one of the people who started International Fisting Day in 2011, writes about why fisting isn’t scary, why everyone should try it and why…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes It Rough
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+ Rough sex is “back,” as if it ever went anywhere:
“One would think that, considering that more and more people of age have grown up with insta-access to a variety of kinky porn, an admission of rough sex wouldn’t be a big to-do. Yet apparently it is. One of Knox’s disparagers commented, ‘So being choked, spit on, and…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Eat You For Canadian Thanksgiving
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+ Ms. Opinionated has some advice for getting back in touch with your ex, and being friends with exes generally (not the kind of friends who sleep together), when things ended badly:
“I do not think it is an awful idea for you to get back in touch with this person. I am in friendly touch with just about every person I’ve ever…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday’s Kiss Got Her Hoping You’ll Save Her Right Now
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+ Sometimes you think you’re having okay or good sex, and then you have really good sex, and it turns out everything you were telling yourself about your earlier sex was a lie. Here is how to tell if you’re lying to yourself(though some of the points are open for disagreement, especially as not everybody requires an orgasm…
The Kind of Sex We’re Talking About Today, Part Three: Costumes
AUTOSTRADDLE OFFICE EMAIL, 9:42 AM
Lizz: Guys I’m in the most boring lecture ever. Like ever. Can we just email about sex or something? I suggest the topic of costumes. Does anyone have any really funny costumes they’ve had sex in?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Feels Young and Hungry When She Looks At You
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Group sex parties, how often and for how long women have sex with each other, lesbian porn haiku, finding the best mattress for your sex life and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Watch
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A sexting game, the way people smell, a cuddling app and more!
