NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Pretty Much Up For Anything
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+ Lindsay King-Miller answers questions about intrusive exes, being married to a man and being not straight, being in love with your boss and what to do when the friend you’re secretly in love with is dating someone else:
“If at all possible, give yourself some space from this girl. I know you’re in…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Wearing Fancy Underpants
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+ Soly Poly addresses why being your own primary partner in non-monogamous relationships is harder, but also worth it:
“Why should anyone want to do relationships the hard way? Specifically, why might someone who desires long lasting, deeply intimate relationships prefer both solohood (retaining autonomy by…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Take You Out
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+ The Casual Sex Project, run by sex researcher, educator and NYU instructor Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, is collecting stories about all kinds of hookups. In an interview with Nerve, Vrangalova says:
“The media loves sensationalist stories and so the image they portray is often exaggerated and biased, though not always in the same direction. It’s very whimsical…
Going Beyond Going Down: Why Diverse Queer Sex On TV Matters
Abby: “I am almost to the end of the first season of Orphan Blackand one of the characters is gay — and I can’t tell you too much because I don’t wanna spoil it — and has gay sex. She just hooked up with a lady for the first time on the show. And another character on the show is a woman and has had sex with a man multiple times. And every time she has sex with a man, she is ass naked. Literally.…
Bondage 101: How To Tie Up Someone’s Ankles
Tying people up is fun! Here’s how to restrain someone by the ankles.
Rope is the single best multi-purpose bondage toy you can own. You can make handcuffs, ankle cuffs, different types of gags, harnesses, straps for holding body parts in place during sex, the ankle wrap below and more. It seems intricate, and some of it is, but there’s also a ton of things you can do without knowing what…
Let’s Talk About Sexting: A Roundtable
Sexting can be a great way to flirt, build communication in a low-pressure environment, talk about sex when you might not be able to otherwise, stay close in your long-distance relationship and, obviously, get someone off. Everyone is sexting more than ever.
In a discussion of sexting as a whole different form of sex — rather than a poor imitation of it — Sand Avidar-Walzer writes:
“The…
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Know What You’re Doing Later
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+ At the Hairpin, Lindsay King-Miller answers questions about queer femme invisibility at work, the queer canon, coming out as trans to your date and bi invisibility and non-monogamy:
“Try to stop worrying about whether you’re Queer Enough. You have plenty of things to worry about (is that cute person…
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Candy-Colored Glass Dildo
AUTOSTRADDLE ANONYMOUS SEX TOY REVIEW #42:If you only want one glass toy in your box and you want it to be as comfortable as possible, the candy-colored glass dildo is probably that toy.
12 (More) Ladies Who Were Writing Sexy Lesbian Love Letters Before You Got Born
In the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, romantic friendships between women were everywhere. Women professed their love, platonic and erotic, for each other at length, often in letters.
In Sapphistries, Leila J. Rupp writes:
“Are these expression of physical desire? Formulaic expressions of friendship? Or sometimes one, sometimes the other, sometimes both? What might it mean that a woman would imagine traces of another’s kisses on her face when the two had never met? After all, what counts as sex?”
Though the women below might not have been together according to the way we think of being together (and imposing contemporary ideas of sexuality on them is incorrect), it’s clear from their words that their relationships were passionate and full of sex sometimes and love and longing always.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants Sex And Tea In That Order
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+ In the Guardian, sex educator Betty Dodson talks about reviving her bodysex workshops at age 85:
“A teaching programme for women who want to spread the Dodson word was introduced this year. “Women tell me they worry their fantasies aren’t feminist enough. I tell them: ‘Honey, the dirtier…
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Mason
AUTOSTRADDLE ANONYMOUS SEX TOY REVIEW #41:It’s our 41st Autostraddle Anonymous Sex Toy Review! Over the last few years, sex toy companies and stores have propositioned us, wondering if we’d like to review their toys in exchange for, you know, their toys. We’ve decided to start saying yes to the dress.
This week I tried the The Mason from New York Toy Collective!
16 Food-Related Euphemisms For “Female Masturbation”
May is National Masturbation Month! In celebration, here are sixteen ways to talk about doing you for when you want to pretend you’re not talking about doing you and would rather just talk about food.
- cooking cucumbers
- fondling the fig
- polishing your peanut
- spearing the bearded clam
- stirring the honey pot
- getting a bit of Southern Comfort
- rolling the dough
- shucking the oyster
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Just Wants To Take You By The Hand and Take You Anywhere
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+ May is Masturbation Month! There are at least 20 reasons to celebrate, including proven health benefits, relieving cramps, lowering certain health risks, stress management and more. You can also enjoy more masturbation-related material by reading this fantastic roundtable about seminal masturbation experiences,…
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Lelo Sensua Suede “Whip”
AUTOSTRADDLE ANONYMOUS SEX TOY REVIEW #40:It’s our 41st Autostraddle Anonymous Sex Toy Review! Over the last few years, sex toy companies and stores have propositioned us, wondering if we’d like to review their toys in exchange for, you know, their toys.
This week, one of our anonymous reviewers tried out the Lelo Sensua Suede Whip available at Babeland.
The Lelo Sensua Suede situation
- Material:
16 Animal-Related Euphemisms For Cunnilingus
It seems to be a thing of some kind
- barking at the ape
- bird washing
- gorilla in the washing machine
- growling at the badger
- munching the bearded clam
- clam lapping
- clam diving
- anything to do with clams, really
