Top Five Ways To Consensually Hit Your Sex Partner (NSFW)
Spanking, slapping, flogging, paddling and hitting can all feel great, done correctly.
If you’re playing with a new person or toy, experiment with a few different strokes with different intensities to see what you both like. (You should also try out new toys on a pillow to get…
Five Neat Ways to Organize Your Mobile Office
Raise your hands, all ye work-from-homers! I’m right there with you! Except “there” might not actually be your home—it could be the house your are currently house-sitting, the coffee shop down the street, the beach or the park or, goodness I hope so, a “work-cation” where you…
Top Five Ways To Restrain Your Sex Partner (NSFW)
Restraining people is fun! Here are five ways to do it.
Always start by discussing what you both like, what you both don’t like, physical or mental health considerations, safe words (or other ways to stop the scene) and what anyone might require for aftercare. Safety is…
Top Five Anime Ladies I Want To Date
Like a lot of queer people, media was a big part of helping me discover and come to terms with my sexuality. It was The L Wordthat initially opened the door, and several other shows that helped me realize that I wasn’t just “curious”, but I actually could see myself in a…
Top Five Movies Featuring Cats
Two of my favorite things in the world are cats and movies, so when you combine the two, it often makes for a magical experience. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that so many movies about cats are also female-led movies. I didn’t even try to look for cat movies that also…
Notes From A Queer Engineer: My Top Five Beautiful Things in Science
1. FractalsAlthough self-similar patterns have been around forever, the term “fractal” wasn’t coined until 1975. Mathematician Benoit Mandelbrot created the word from the Latin fractus, meaning fragmented and irregular. Appropriately, fractals are non-regular geometric shapes…
Top 5 Queer TV Characters Named Alex
Alex is a very popular name for lesbians. For example: Alex Vega, co-founder of Autostraddle Dot Com and esteemed dancer; Zoie Palmer‘s girlfriend Alex Lalonde and artist/actress Alexandra Hedisson. It’s even more popular as a fictional name for lesbians however — a fictional…
Top Ten Best Potato-Dominant Situations To Eat
I ate french fries for lunch every day in 9th and 10th grade, which is how I got so tall! It’s because potatoes were growing inside me. Furthermore, I get stressed out when I have to pick only one potato product at a restaurant when I’m offered multiple side dishes. This is because potato products are the best products in the history of food and are very difficult to compare to each other.…
11 Reasons Stef Swiped Left on Tinder
1. You’re standing next to an elephant and kids and way too casual about it
2. They’re holding a panda
3. They’re making a face that shouldn’t be a human expression
4. She does sports
5. They are in an open relationship
6. Her entire bio is emojis
7. We have one mutual friend in common. It’s Haviland.
8. They ARE a panda
9.I think they’re going for adorable but it looks like they just fucked that…
Top Five Things I’ve Panic-Ordered At Restaurants
Restaurants stress me the hell out. I am perhaps the world’s pickiest person. I also have really strange food allergies to the point where people think I’m making them up (like bananas, but only if they aren’t ripe, and sometimes when they’re cooked but only sometimes). This…
My Own Personal Top Five Trans Roots
I came out as trans much later in life than I wish I had, and finally getting here was a long and winding journey. I remember wanting to be a girl when I was just a little kid, not even in school yet, but that was before I really had any ideas about gender and what being a boy…
Five Books That F*cked Up My Brain Cells (In A Good Way)
The stories we read are part of us. When we read and process stories, be they fiction, non-fiction or poetry, they seep into our brain cells and affect our ways of looking at the world. And throughout the history of best sellers and literary criticism, most bestselling authors and literary critics have been white dudes, which means a lot of the stories in our brain cells are white dude stories.
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100 LGBTQ Black Women You Should Know: The Epic Black History Month Megapost
Black lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer and transgender women represent an always-significant and increasingly-visible portion of the LGBTQ community. In addition to the legends of the Harlem Renaissance and the decades of groundbreaking activism spearheaded by women like Audre Lorde, Barbara Smith and Angela Davis, many of the most prominent coming out stories of the past two years have been black…
Idol Worship: Nicki Minaj’s 8 Gayest Songs
The jury is pretty much out on whether or not Nicki Minaj is inclined to date women, sleep with women, touch women affectionately, or ever make all of my dreams come true and admit that “Pink Friday” was, in fact, entirely about her latent homosexuality.
Every Lesbian On TV Has A Side Part
I can imagine pretty vividly how big network meetings go down. Not because I’ve ever been in one, but because I was required to take a critical thinking class in college. Fun sidebar: my college required a class in CRITICAL THINKING. Anyway, I can see it all happening in my head…
Writer: Our show needs more diversity.
Network: But we just had a black guy last season.
Writer: -_______-
Network:Fine,…
