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fvnkbvn-deactivated20151006 asked:

So senior prom is coming up and normally I wouldn't care, but I happen to have a date. Problem is, I can't stand dresses or skirts. My friends think I should get a tux, but my mom would be angry with me if I did. Does anyone have suggestions on a different way to look acceptable? Did someone already write about this and I just missed it?

you should wear pants! you can wear women’s pants and a women’s dress shirt and a women’s blazer, will that be good enough for your mom? i think lizz and alex are the experts on this but now that formspring is gone i can’t tell you to go ask them.

oh wait, lizz has a tumblr so you can ask her:

http://ohheyitslizz.tumblr.com/

this is the tag page for all of our fashion/style stuff that presents masculine options for ladies:

http://www.autostraddle.com/tag/very-dapper/

we did a “queer your wedding wardrobe” series — I know you’re not going to a wedding, but you might get some good ideas from it!

http://www.autostraddle.com/tag/queer-your-wedding-wardrobe/

This particular installment might be extra-helpful because Alex talks about dressing “center of center.”

http://www.autostraddle.com/qyww-145099/

You could dress like Bette Porter:
http://www.autostraddle.com/style-thief-how-to-dress-like-bette-porter-154281/

Or Kiyomi:
http://www.autostraddle.com/style-thief-how-to-dress-like-kiyomi-mccloskey-151233/

if you do leap for the tux but want to feminize it, janelle monae is clearly the expert:
http://www.autostraddle.com/revolution-queer-grrrl-style-thief-now-janelle-monae-149485/

you could also just browse all the posts by dapperq for inspiration:
http://www.autostraddle.com/author/dapperq/

hope that helps!

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