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Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

How long were you on OKCupid before you met mko? Any tips on best methods of success? I just created a profile and am feeling very overwhelmed.

(this is a secret, but i’m creating a post just for you and this question and also some other questions and other people, so answering it in earnest here would negate the necessity of the post, you see.)

i think i was on okc for maybe 3 months or more before mko messaged me. she wished me a happy birthday, so obvs i was super into her from the start bc i really like my birthday. then her computer died, so she “had” to give me her phone # if i wanted to talk to her, and her fb link. and of course i did want to talk to her.

so i think wishing girls happy birthday and then breaking your computer are things you could try.

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Finn vs Brittany: Identity
Because Brittany has always encouraged her friends to accept, and show, who they truly are, while Finn is either about denying your true self or forcing others to reveal themselves when they’re not ready.

I just think that Brittany’s a lot wiser than people think, especially wiser than Finn, and it doesn’t make sense to graduate Finn and not her.  

I overcompensate bc my gf is bi. I try to be my best, but some guy can do all that and more, simply bc he’s a guy. i try to be perfect but I can’t breathe. I can’t even cry in front of her (i cant look weak). Now she’s slipping away. How do I stop?

i think you should be yourself
then if she slips away she’s not right for you
right now she’s slipping away from something you’re trying to be
because of something you imagine she feels
you cant hold on to somebody else
with imaginary hands

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i want to try strap-on sex for the first time. where should i look (online) for the equipment? suggestions for styles?

presently obsessed with the rodeo:
http://www.autostraddle.com/you-need-the-rodeoh-112171/

also, this is a thing we did about different styles:
http://www.autostraddle.com/nsfw-sunday-goes-shopping-68581/

the main thing is just – it’s an investment. it’s worth it to get a good one, because if you don’t, you’re only gonna use whatever you get until you can afford a good one, and then ultimately that’s more expensive. see? trust me on this.

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very important question please! in the fb photos of a-camp…who is the tall girl with her head cut off in your group cover photo (right corner)? i have no idea who that is and i have been reading as forever!! thank you : )

are you talking about the staff photo? there are 2 tall girls in the staff photo on the right, and they are:
lauren (mass of blonde/brown curly hair, super awesome chick who filmed during camp)
and megan (mohawk of black curly hair, super awesome chick who is my girlfriend).
i really hope this helps.

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I introduced one of my friends to drugs, as she wanted to experiment at a party, and now she takes them constantly; I’ve done this to her, & I know it’s my fault - but what can I do to help her? I have a feeling that this will end badly, & it’s my fault

it’s not your fault
if it wasn’t you, it would’ve been somebody else, you know?
trust me on that
here’s the thing about drugs: everybody is introduced to drugs by somebody else

it’s not like you go to the mall and are like
“ooo that cocaine looks so pretty in the display case
and it’s on sale!
i think i’ll have some!”
or you’re up too late on the internet
and find yourself on amazon
ordering LSD.

no.

it’s always a person. or multiple people.

what you need to do is care for her
because she’s your friend
not because you feel guilty
because it’s NOT YOUR FAULT
but because you love her and want her to be ok.

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