girl you need to put the brakes on that right this very moment
a friend was telling me a story today about a dude biking by her and her girlfriend and calling out “gayyyyy” and she reports that without really thinking about it she just called back “good eye!”
…for queer women, clothing is about much more than what you’re wearing. Clothing allows us to create an identity for ourselves—and to control how other people view us and consider us. What we’ve learned is that while each queer woman’s story may be different, clothing probably plays an important part in every one.
I realized that femme for me wasn’t just a safety net or a protective shield—I loved how I felt in dresses and makeup; they made me feel hot and confident and ready to take on the world. They made me feel like me.
So know that it was with great perseverance and liver strength that I was able to make you this supercut of Whitney Mixter asking Whitney Mixter questions about Whitney Mixter and answering them. Know one knows Whitney quite like Whitney does. Do we already know the answers to the questions before she asks them? Yes. Do we particularly care about the answers? No. What can we learn from all of this? I don’t really know. Maybe you can answer that.
i think people push you as far as you let them
so you should deal with this now
before it gets to be too much
does she think that’s how people show love to each other? for real?
by constantly talking to each other all the time?
no! and she knows that. she just feels insecure for some reason.
ask her what it is about you being separate from her that makes her panic
what does she think you’re doing when you’re not talking to her?
what does she imagine herself doing when you can’t talk to her?
my junior year of boarding school, my best friend and i we were so obsessed with each other
that we designed our schedules second semester to be in as many classes together as possible or else in the same rotunda so we could see each other between classes. he was a boy, so we didn’t stay in the same dorm, but every other waking minute we spent together. by the time we got to dinner – our third meal together of the day – we had nothing left to say to each other! we had nothing to report!
relationships aren’t about two heads meshing into one body. that’s unhealthy and ultimately unsustainable. the best thing you can bring to the table is your strength and independence, your capability to be apart, and your decision to be together. you can sit there at the table with your little heads full of ideas and feelings. then see what happens when you touch.
things will be mailed at the end of the campaign, and we’ll check everybody’s address before mailing anything, i believe. this is alex’s area but she’s in longisland for her brother’s wedding and this is the most educated answer i feel qualified to provide. don’t worry, nothing will be mailed until after the campaign ends. wheeeeeee
When I was cleaning out the bathroom cabinet, I found a bag with vials of meds and several straight razor blades. Then I noticed that the doorjamb and deadbolt were broken, and, a little freaked out, I called the management company. A very apologetic receptionist told me that the janitor had broken in when the previous tenant’s social worker called because she hadn’t heard from him in a month, but not to worry, older people just slip in the bathtub sometimes, and they’d cleaned really well. Which is how I found out the previous tenant had died in the bathroom.
