The only way to work successfully from a home office (or kitchen table or couch) is to do things the way you would in a real office: by sitting (or standing) in front of a computer for the majority of your waking hours and Getting It Done. I’ve never understood people who say, “I could never work in an office from nine to five every day, it would be like being in a box,” because when you’re working from home, you still have to work in a box. It’s just a box you have to make and lock yourself. For me, this is much harder than it would be if the box was in an office somewhere, because then I would not have to turn the place I watch Netflix in into a place of business and back twice a day.
what yoga mat would you recommend?
definitely not the one on sale for $12.99. that’s the one i got and it’s like a piece of green foam with a dinosaur on it. so it’s really terrible, but also clearly badass.
autostraddle should write an article about online dating. like how to message for the first time, how long to wait before meeting up, how to write a good profile and how to charm their online pants off generally. k thx
oh my g-d you have no idea what’s about to come your way, grasshopper
should i say i have 2 kids on my okc profile? did you? i just want to make some queer friends and expand my social circle, but i’m open to more than that. i feel like it turns people off before getting to know me - but i hate dropping that on a date…
i think i said something like “i’m in charge of two short people.”
if having kids turns people off before getting to know you, it will also eventually turn them off after getting to know you. it’s good to just get that song and dance out of the way.
My dad keeps posting things about the election on facebook, and I try to calmly come back with reasons why Mitt Romney is an asshat. But then all his old, straight, white, male friends gang up on me. To be rude and piss off my dad, or to ignore?
to ignore. to always always ignore.
besides, political arguments w/ family are so much more fun over holiday meals, because of the pie.
How do I deal with fallout with family members as the result of coming out?
“We are all entitled to our opinions and religious beliefs, but we are not entitled to make shit up and then use the shit we made up to oppress other people.
This doesn’t mean you have to break all ties with them. There is a middle path, but it goes in only one direction: toward the light. Your light. The one that goes blink, blink, blink inside your chest when you know what you’re doing is right. Listen to it. Trust it. Let it make you stronger than you are.”
(blink blink blink)
http://therumpus.net/2010/11/dear-sugar-the-rumpus-advice-column-57-that-ecstatic-parade/
How do you tell a girl you dated for two seconds that she is driving you absolutely fucking crazy with the incessant texting/calling WITHOUT being mean? I don’t want to hurt her feelings. It’s just seriously off-putting.
can’t you say like, “i’m not really a big texter – it’s just not me. i prefer seeing your darling face and such. also i have to pay per text? and every time i receive a text i have to stone a kitten to death, and when i reply to one, my mom has to stone a kitten. so it’s like, super off-putting? you know? and every picture mail actually goes to my grandmother’s phone first – idk it’s set up so weird – and she has to approve it, which takes a while because she doesn’t speak english and the photos arrive as text descriptions of the photos? so she has to google translate everything one word at a time bc she doesn’t trust google translate to translate sentences accurately. so i just try to avoid texting. i’m sure you understand.”
where is the real l word recappppp
well intern grace has had quite a weekend! i have secured confirmation that screencaps will be completed tonight so i would say the recap eta is tomorrow. hold your ponies!
If I hit “continue” I am almost lying about why I was on Facebook in the first place. I am pretending that I was on Facebook to conform, and not to amplify my own screaming.

