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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Wearing A Bra

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Wearing A Bra

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

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by spencer charles

+ What happens if you try to work your way through Cosmo‘s lesbian sex positions?:

“Since I am a masochist and an overachiever, I wanted to start with some of the most difficult positions suggested. Thus, we started with “Over the Edge” (#27), which involves a fairly standard grinding of the vaginas, but with the added…

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Where Are the Superheroines of STEM on the Silver Screen? A Wishlist of Amazing Women

Where Are the Superheroines of STEM on the Silver Screen? A Wishlist of Amazing Women

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There are some amazing nerd movies coming out, y’all!

First there’s Benedict Cumberbatch playing Alan Turing in The Imitation Game.

I am more than a little bit obsessed with Alan Turing and WWII code breaking. Naturally I will see this movie immediately upon its release.

And then another trailer was released just this week —…

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Saturday Morning Cartoons: Tongue Depressor

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Tongue Depressor

Welcome to Saturday Morning Cartoons, a segment where three artists take turns delighting you with their whimsy, facts and punchlines on Saturday mornings! Our four esteemed cartoon critters are Cameron GlavinAnna Bongiovanni, and Megan Prazenica. Today’s cartoon is by Cameron!

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#Fatkini Makes Waves for Body Positivity on Social Media

#Fatkini Makes Waves for Body Positivity on Social Media

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As a fat woman, I often struggle to love my body and find clothes that I feel look good on it. This is especially true when it comes to swimsuits. In fact, I was so ashamed of my body, that I didn’t wear a swimsuit for about ten years. Only recently have I been coming around and starting to learn to love my fat and wear the clothes that I want to in public. The one thing I’m still struggling with…

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The Comment Awards Are Packing A Bag

The Comment Awards Are Packing A Bag

Hello sunbursts! How’s your week going? I’m mere hours from being on vacation so excitement levels are out of hand in my corner of the universe.

This week Mey wrote about which female superheroes Marvel should make movies about ASAP and Kat has 15 women who are killing it as queer hip hop artists. Larry King remains the worst and Katy Perry continues the cultural appropriation parade that is her…

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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: You’ve Got Some Explaining to Do

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: You’ve Got Some Explaining to Do

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As some of you already know, I missed a month of internet. Luckily I came back in time for the “Flawless” remix. Who knows what I would have done had I missed that. Possibly never have gone without the internet again by any means possible. I’m mostly concerned no one texted me about a BIG INTERNET THING because I’m sure there were several and I might never understand their true magnitude. I’m…

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if I never type the word problematic again, I will die the happiest bastard on the planet

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ohhowgooditwas:

I actually committed to never using that word anymore some months back. It really forces you to get down to the marrow of what you actually want to say and whether or not it even needs to be said at all.

teenboypopstar: it just makes me think, what if we as a site (autostraddle) committed to like…one month of not critiquing a popular form of media. what if all our interactions with existing creative works was only to highlight those that are positive? I am the first to say that is easy and even COMFORTABLE to just always be in reactionary critical mode. I’ve tried to stay away from that, and then I was just rereading some of my stuff and realizing that I’ve fallen back into the pattern now that I’ve had less and less time to write - it’s EASY to write about why something is “problematic” and thus I can do it quickly when I am presses for time - and I’m just plain bored by it. this is why I love your writing Riese - it’s always legit good stuff that doesn’t fall into the shitty same patterns and that’s why it’s compelling and quality and worth reading. I just wish more queer media was doing that. why are we all falling into these same masturbatory circles?
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: yes yes yes yes to all of this. (and thanks!)

i think we could commit to that but i wonder if it might also work just to devote a theme month like “your fave is TOTALLY NOT problematic” you know what i mean? what’s funny is that y’all don’t even see all the stories we filter out or pitches we reject because we think they’re trying too hard to be critical for criticism’s sake. and the first week of training with the potential new CEs was a lot of us saying over and over again, ‘i think that’s a bit of a reach’ or ‘i don’t think [x] is really worth our energy’ — and i’m not criticizing them for this, you know, i think somehow this is what people think sites like ours WANT to publish and it truly isn’t. because that’s usually the stuff people remember about your site, those takedowns, ‘cause that’s what gets shared on facebook the most. people still remember me for that taylor swift thing, you know? sure, it definitely happens we’ll put something up and then think afterwards, ‘okay maybe that was too much’. i just feel like if we keep crying wolf nobody is going to notice the WOLFPACK.

but personally i think my exhaustion with that whole racket is that i’ve been doing pop culture criticism for so long that i’m not as challenged by it as i used to be. i really prefer and feel more excited about and interested in writing about why a thing is awesome or deserves redemption than why it is terrible. and i didn’t do this kind of work in school, but i’ve been reading bitch magazine pretty much since it came out, so i think that’s where i learned how to do this. also so much of this criticism (and the really obsessive monitoring of who said or was somehow involved in something that was in the same realm as something problematic) is really ahistorical too. but i could talk about the Ahistorical Approach Epidemic for like another 10,000 words so i’ll stop

Women’s Refuges Shut Down Because of Men? Yes, But Not The Ones You Think

Women’s Refuges Shut Down Because of Men? Yes, But Not The Ones You Think

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On Sunday, The Guardian‘s Sandra Laville published an in-depth report on the crisis of women’s refuges being shut across England and Wales. Between austerity-driven funding cuts and changes to government tendering processes that favour “more efficient” or “streamlined” (read: cheaper) generic services, refuges that provide specialist, therapeutic services to women fleeing domestic violence are…

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Things I Read That I Loved #139: . We Lean Into Love, Even In The Most Hideous Circumstances

Things I Read That I Loved #139: . We Lean Into Love, Even In The Most Hideous Circumstances

HELLO and welcome to the 139th installment of Things I Read That I Love, wherein I share with you some of the longer-form journalism/essays I’ve read recently so that you can read them too and we can all know more about Edward Albee! This “column” is less feminist/queer focused than the rest of the site because when something is feminist/queer focused, I put it on the rest of the site. Here is…

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Getting Back to Geek Roots with 10 Little Known Facts About Xena: Warrior Princess

Getting Back to Geek Roots with 10 Little Known Facts About Xena: Warrior Princess

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Xena has been off the air for well over a decade, but lesbians can often subsist on subtext alone (even though we shouldn’t have to). The topic recently re-emerged in an Autostraddle reply-all, so I offered to lend my geekery knowledge to this list of little known Xena trivia.

1. Xena and Gabrielle have a complicated history of mouth-to-mouth

We all watch Xena for the famous “lesbian subtext,” so…

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Cooking With Alice B. Toklas: Oeufs, Custard and Salade Aphrodite

Cooking With Alice B. Toklas: Oeufs, Custard and Salade Aphrodite

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It’s easy to see an old cookbook as a piece of history, but it’s quite another thing to cook dinner from it. This year is the 60th anniversary of the publication of The Alice B. Toklas Cookbook, the patchwork of recipes and stories that chronicle the life through meals of Alice B. Toklas and her partner, writer Gertrude Stein. To celebrate, I decided to pull the book off the shelf  — it is one of…

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