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I Wanna Give Back “The Giver”: Top Ten Feelings About A Truly Godawful Cinematic Experience

I Wanna Give Back “The Giver”: Top Ten Feelings About A Truly Godawful Cinematic Experience

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Y’all probs read The Giver in middle school and have strong affectionate feelings for it, and perhaps you were even eagerly anticipating the long-awaited cinematic adaptation of this tender tale. Perhaps you re-read The Giver last week so that you’d be fresh and prepared for the movie, as I did, and then perhaps you saw the movie, as I did, and then perhaps you were like THAT WAS THE WORST! As I…

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Roxane Gay’s “Bad Feminist” Reminds Us We’re All Human

Roxane Gay’s “Bad Feminist” Reminds Us We’re All Human

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Header by Rory Midhani

“I am failing as a woman. I am failing as a feminist. To freely accept the feminist label would not be fair to good feminists. If I am, indeed, a feminist, I am a rather bad one.”

Roxane Gay makes a variety of amazing points in her newly published book, Bad Feministnot one of which makes me think she’s “doing it wrong.” (There were times where I bristled at her…

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Also.Also.Also: Laverne Cox Will Be On Season Two of “Faking It” and Other Stories We Missed

Also.Also.Also: Laverne Cox Will Be On Season Two of “Faking It” and Other Stories We Missed

So far this week I’ve convinced myself that I’m both perimenopausal and possibly pregnant, as well potentially allergic to the inside of my own nose. Here are the stories we missed while I was googling symptoms!

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here is a relaxing baby spider monkey
photo by lisa ridley via zooborns

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+ Your fucking bougie almonds are killing salmon and honeybees and contributing to the drought in California.

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INVITATION TO PARTICIPATE IN STUDY OF QUEER ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN, MOTHERING AND WORK/FAMILY ISSUES

Miliann Kang, Associate Professor of Women, Gender, Sexuality Studies
University of Massachusetts, Amherst.
Nahee Kwak, Research Assistant, Smith College ’14, Philosophy & East Asian Studies
Naheekw@gmail.com

I am conducting a study on how Queer Asian American women balance work and family responsibilities and would like to invite you to participate in an interview. While there has been much attention to “tiger mother” parenting, very little data is currently available regarding how Queer Asian American women are actually mothering and balancing the responsibilities of work and family life.

The interview will be completely confidential. Unfortunately, I cannot offer any remuneration, other than the satisfaction of knowing that your participation will potentially help to raise awareness of the particular challenges facing Queer Asian American women and to facilitate workplace practices, policy initiatives, and activism to better serve Queer Asian American women and their families. In addition, you may find the interview itself enjoyable and useful for gaining a deeper understanding of your own experiences and how they compare to other Queer Asian American women.

Anyone who self-identifies as an Queer Asian American woman, including immigrants, permanent and non-permanent residents, U.S. citizens, adoptees and those of multiracial ancestry, is welcome to participate. However, the study mainly focuses on second and 1.5 generation (those who were born in the U.S. or came here at a young age). The study includes single, married, divorced, lesbian and queer mothers and those engaged in both paid and unpaid work. If for any reason you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions or if they do not apply to you, please skip them. For reasons of proximity, if I am unable to interview in person I may ask you to do a phone interview or fill out a written questionnaire. The interview usually takes 1-2 hours.

This research is being supported by an American Association of University Women Postdoctoral American Fellowship, a grant from the Institute for Asian American Studies at the University of Massachusetts, Boston and a research leave from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. It has been approved by the Institutional Review Board at UMass Amherst.

Please contact my research assistant at naheekw@gmail.com if you are interested in participating. Feel free to forward this invitation to others who may be interested. Following is a fuller explanation of the research project.

Beneath the “model minority” stereotype of Ivy League professionals and controlling “tiger mothers,” little is known about the actual experiences of Asian American women as they move into the workforce, become heads of households, and negotiate ties to ethnic communities and culture. Focusing on these women’s experiences of motherhood, this study’s research goals are:

1) to illuminate the ways that gender, race, ethnicity and class influence the everyday practices of combining mothering and work responsibilities
2) to understand the articulation of individual and collective identities through these practices
3) to reveal common challenges and barriers
4) to identify effective strategies and resources for this emergent group of mothers in the labor force.

Specifically, I investigate the following research questions:

What are the particular social contexts and cultural frameworks that shape Asian American women’s practices and ideologies of mothering? What are the patterns of work-family arrangements in different Asian American households and how do they compare to other racial and ethnic groups? What do Asian American women’s work-family conflicts reveal about exclusion and inequality in contemporary U.S. workplaces and policies?

Female Students Arrested in Malaysia, Suspected of Criminal “Same-Sex Relations”

Female Students Arrested in Malaysia, Suspected of Criminal “Same-Sex Relations”

Two female students, aged 20 and 21, were arrested early Sunday morning by enforcement officers of the Johor Islamic Religious Department (JAIJ) on suspicion of having had “same-sex relations” in a hotel room in Johor. The pair was among eight couples detained in Operasi Ambang Merdeka on the dawn of Malaysia’s Independence Day, 31 August.

Members of the Religious Department of Johor

Members of Johor’s Islamic Religious Department
via Isu…

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Everything is Racist, Including Advertisements That Feature People of Color

Everything is Racist, Including Advertisements That Feature People of Color

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I’ve always felt completely objectified by advertisements. As a woman, obviously, and a black woman especially, but not always for the reasons you might think. As much as I believe it is truly important to have people of color in mainstream media, whenever I see a person of color in a cereal ad, I want to shout: “STOP TRYING TO SELL ME CHEERIOS! I don’t want Cheerios because the beautiful…

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A Tomboy Femme’s Dream Come True: Jewelry You’ll Actually Want To Wear

A Tomboy Femme’s Dream Come True: Jewelry You’ll Actually Want To Wear

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I grew up in a family of very feminine women. My grandmother wears as much bling as possible at all times, day or night. My mother wears jewelry flawlessly, her hoop earrings and hands full of rings fitting into every situation from barbecuing in the backyard to going out to a fancy dinner. My sister prefers matching sets of things to keep it simple – her earrings and necklaces coordinate to pull…

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Playlist: Keep on Fightin’ the Good Fight

Playlist: Keep on Fightin’ the Good Fight

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Good lord, y’all, it’s September. I’m sure many of you have been acutely aware that fall’s been coming, but I went to a college that didn’t even let us move inuntil after Labor Day, so I’m habitually a bit behind on seasons. Some of my friends have even started classes! I’m here spending another day wondering, like, where did this summer go, man? This was a good summer. Have…

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Lowell’s Synth-Pop Anthem ‘LGBT’ Sends Message of Love and Acceptance

Lowell’s Synth-Pop Anthem ‘LGBT’ Sends Message of Love and Acceptance

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Judging by the amount of mainstream music media coverage Lowell has garnered, this openly bisexual artist is poised to be the next pop sensation or, as Rolling Stone put it, the next “Kanye West.”

Twenty-two-year-old Elizabeth Lowell Boland, who records under her middle name, sings about rape culture, women’s rights, empowerment and with her most recent single, LGBT rights. The synth-pop anthem “

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Stonewall Begins Work On Trans Inclusion, Asks for Your Feedback

Stonewall Begins Work On Trans Inclusion, Asks for Your Feedback

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On Saturday, Stonewall, the UK’s largest LGB charity, made its first steps towards redressing its long-standing exclusion of the trans community by hosting a conference attended by around 50 transgender activists and community members. Participants discussed what trans inclusion could or should look like as the start of a three-month consultation period around trans issues, which will culminate…

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The Ersatz Emancipation of Femininity: On Being a Bulimic, Brown Lesbian

The Ersatz Emancipation of Femininity: On Being a Bulimic, Brown Lesbian

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To be a woman in the Western world is to live under the hold of normative femininity — the surreptitious web of supposed truths about the correct attitudes and appearances of womanhood. They are cruel and demanding lies built on misogyny and the contempt of women and their potential. To be a woman in the Western world is to understand that your worth stems from the ability to be thin, passive,…

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In Which Mari and Mey Have Conflicted Feelings About “Transparent”

In Which Mari and Mey Have Conflicted Feelings About “Transparent”

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Being a trans woman is complicated. It can seem like every day you have to deal with things that are anything but black and white. There’s the media’s portrayal of trans people, terminology, the entire concept of “passing” — and that’s just scratching the surface. Luckily, you have Mari and Mey to talk out their conflicted feelings on these things. Today, we’re going to talk about our conflicted…

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Make A Thing: Vintage Radio Planter

Make A Thing: Vintage Radio Planter

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It’s time to use that tool belt for more than just foreplay.

(I’m sorry, do you use a tool belt for tools? Well, here’s another project for you to tackle.)

My wife is a magnet for vintage radios. She picks them up at flea markets and tag sales — whether they work or not. Most she can fix, but there are only so many electrical outlets in the house. We decided to upcycle one of the broken ones into…

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