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Facebook’s Half-Hearted Apology for “Real Name Policy” Doesn’t Mean Much for LGBT Users

Facebook’s Half-Hearted Apology for “Real Name Policy” Doesn’t Mean Much for LGBT Users

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Getting an apology feels like winning but I wouldn’t bust out the celebration maracas quite yet in the Facebook “real name” debacle. (For a little background you can read a piece I wrote last week about their crackdown on individuals not using their legal names and the consequential flocking to new social media platforms).

Last Wednesday Oct 1 Facebook Chief Product Officer Chris Cox took to the…

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Daily Misfits: NYC Street Style with More Fun, Less Pretentiousness

Daily Misfits: NYC Street Style with More Fun, Less Pretentiousness

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‘Daily Misfits’ is a daily observation journal showcasing unique, versatile, culturally diverse and nonconforming queer fashion. It’s a visual observation journal recording fashion choices made by the author and other folks in daily life that hold a common theme of cultural/gender diversity, originality, non-pretentious fun and or just gorgeous dapperness. ‘Daily Misfits’ is a project by New York…

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A+ VIDEO: “Because You Loved Me” / “Crazy In Love” Lip Sync Dance Party

A+ VIDEO: “Because You Loved Me” / “Crazy In Love” Lip Sync Dance Party

Hey, have we told you lately how we love you? Is it too soon? Would it be better if we just said that we REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE YOU? Or that maybe we don’t know that much, but we know this much is true: we are blessed because we are loved by you? By “blessed” we mean “able to eat.” So we made you some videos!

If you’re an A+ silver or gold member, you’ve by now gotten some e-mails from us…

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VIDEO: A+ Membership Comment Contest Winners Announced!

VIDEO: A+ Membership Comment Contest Winners Announced!

Hey there apple cider donuts! It’s time to announce the winners of our A+ Membership Comment Contest. A couple weeks ago we announced our first A+ Membership contest. The rules were this: comment on the original post the thing in school or life or work that you would give yourself an A+ in before September 15th, then stick around and keep on commenting! Additionally, we upped the stakes so for…

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PHOTOESSAY: “Modern Conception” Perfectly Captures Queer Pregnancy, Features Michelle Tea

PHOTOESSAY: “Modern Conception” Perfectly Captures Queer Pregnancy, Features Michelle Tea

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Someone finally got it right.

You know all those maternity photos of ladies gazing dreamily toward their swollen bellies while golden light streams in from the background?

Yeah. That is NOT what pregnancy is like. Much less queer pregnancy.

Photographer Sophie Spinelle explores queer pregnancy and medically assisted conception in the photo series Modern Conception, with queer writer Michelle Teaa…

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My2024 Wants You to Help Shape the Future of the LGBTQ Movement

My2024 Wants You to Help Shape the Future of the LGBTQ Movement

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Today, My2024 officially launched online. My2024 is a collaboration between the Arcus Foundation and the Institute for the Future, with support from over 80 LGBTQ organizations across the U.S.

According to the website, “My2024 is an online game, a national conversation, and a giant party for 10 days in October 2014 asking lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) people across the…

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My Top Seven Comics-Based Halloween Costumes for 2014

My Top Seven Comics-Based Halloween Costumes for 2014

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Halloween is fast approaching, and that means it’s time to pick out a costume and get dressed up. If you want to look awesome and have a fun time showing off your nerd cred, there aren’t a lot of ways better than dressing up as one of your favorite comic characters. Because of that, I thought I’d spend this week suggesting some of my favorite comic-inspired costumes for Halloween…

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50 Pumpkin Recipes That Will Put Your Latte to Shame

50 Pumpkin Recipes That Will Put Your Latte to Shame

It’s our first food list of October! You know what that means:

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Time for PUMPKIN, my little gourds. I had my first-ever pumpkin spice latte today and I’m going to be honest, I don’t really get what you guys see in them, I feel like maybe you just haven’t tried a dirty chai yet. But it doesn’t matter what I think about your expensive coffee drinks because there are SO MANY other incredible ways to…

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Where The (Queer) Girls Are Gonna Be On Your TV This Year

Where The (Queer) Girls Are Gonna Be On Your TV This Year

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GLAAD’s annual “Where We Are on TV” and “Network Responsibility Index” reports intend to serve as a barometer for progress in LGBTQ representation on American television, and this year’s reports, as usual, reflect incremental progress in some areas, regression in other areas, and an overall lack of queer women on our teevee screen. The Network Responsibility Index gives ratings to 15 major…

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Supreme Court Won’t Take Up Marriage Equality Cases; Legal Battle Stays in State Courts

Supreme Court Won’t Take Up Marriage Equality Cases; Legal Battle Stays in State Courts

This morning the Supreme Court officially declined to ruleon five pending same-sex marriage cases from Indiana, Utah, Oklahoma, Virginia, and Wisconsin. This means that the lower court rulings in these cases will remain intact and won’t be successfully appealed, so same-sex marriage will remain legal in a number of individual states. However, the decision also dashes many activists’ hopes that a…

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You Need Help: Dressing Like a Grown Ass Trans Woman

You Need Help: Dressing Like a Grown Ass Trans Woman

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Welcome to You Need Help! Where you’ve got a problem and yo, we solve it. Or we at least try.

Q:  So, the deal is, I’m a just-beginning-transition, lesbian-identified trans woman. And it took me a while to get there — I’m early-50s. So, what am I supposed to wear? I’ve got a pretty good person doing my hair for me, and I’m confident that they’ll get me where I belong hair-wise. But I’m kind of…

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New York Senate Considers Two Bills to Reduce Legal Hurdles for Same-Sex Parents

New York Senate Considers Two Bills to Reduce Legal Hurdles for Same-Sex Parents

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Pop quiz: What’s the first legal document you’re given in your life, the one that tells our vast governmental bureaucracy who you are and who is responsible for your brand-spanking-new self? Yep, that would be your birth certificate. For many people, it’s a fairly uncomplicated document listing your name, date of birth and weight as well as a few trickier items like…

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“Comedy Crush: Talking To Issa Rae About Color Creative TV, Being Awkward Issa Rae is a producer/writer/director/actress most known for the Shorty Award winning web series, The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl. Rae has made the Forbes...
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Comedy Crush: Talking To Issa Rae About Color Creative TV, Being Awkward

Issa Rae is a producer/writer/director/actress most known for the Shorty Award winning web series, The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl. Rae has made the Forbes “30 Under 30″ list, twice, and is currently developing a half-hour comedy for HBO. She’s also slated to release a book of essays next year. Additionally, Rae just launchedColor Creative TV which aims to increase opportunities for women and minority TV writers by producing and packaging low-cost TV pilots with an indie sensibility. The three pilots from the first round of this initiative: Bleach, Words With Girls, and So Jaded are online now.

I’ve never seen True Detective but people keep talking about the casting decision of Colin Farrell and Vince Vaughn. If you were on that show, who would you want to play your fellow detective?

I really like True Detective. I’m sad that it’s just two white guys again, but I can live now that I know Rachel McAdams is in it. If I were on it, I’d want my partner to be Dave Chappelle. One of the detectives has to be cynical, bitter with life, and all-knowing to the secrets of the Illuminati, and Dave has all of that, coupled with vast, stoner intelligence. I need that.

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What’s the fanciest food you eat on a regular basis?

It used to be smoked Fontina cheese with water crackers, but cheese has a vendetta against black people and old people, so I cut back. Now, the fanciest food I eat is from Blue Apron. I looooooooove Blue Apron. They introduce me to ingredients outside of my comfort zone of breakfast foods and they ration to give you the exact portions you need to make a meal, so my cabinet doesn’t look like an idiot with an entire bottle of coriander seeds that just sit there.

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