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Riese. Hi. So this funnysmartcute girl I met online asked me out on a date. Hooray! Um do I need to tell her beforehand that, like, I am so brand new at this and that I’ve never even been on a date with a girl yet EVER? Pretty much everything is a big ga

if you can make that a part of your act, then go for it. but if it’s gonna make you insecure, then just act “as if.” don’t lie about it, but acting like you know what you’re doing not only makes you look hot (confidence!) but helps you face your fears, which is important! It’s cutest if it does come up at the end and you’re just like, eh, I did my best, I’m new couldn’t you tell. There’s always a chance in the lesbian world that whatever you’re doing is somebody else’s first time. And i don’t think anyone assumes otherwise.

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I have created a heterosexual dating history to recite to fellow cadets when they inquire. I have endured unwanted approaches by male cadets for fear of being accused as a lesbian by rejecting or reporting these events. I have been coerced into ignoring derogatory comments towards homosexuals for fear of being alienated for my viewpoint. In short, I have lied to my classmates and compromised my integrity and my identity by adhering to existing military policy. While at the academy, I have made a deliberate effort to develop myself academically, physically, and militarily, but in terms of holistic personal growth I have reached a plateau. I am unwilling to suppress an entire portion of my identity any longer because it has taken a significant personal, mental, and social toll on me and detrimentally affected my professional development. I have experienced a relentless cognitive dissonance by attempting to adhere to §654 [colloquially known as “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”] and retain my integrity, and I am retrospectively convinced that I am unable to live up to the Army Values as long as the policy remains in place.
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