so i know it’s okay and “normal” for you to like someone older, but is it okay if YOU’RE the older one and you like someone much younger? (ie: 35 liking a 21-year-old) I feel like it’s seen as less of a big deal if you’re the younger one….
still not a big deal. only a big deal if the girl is an actual girl, like <20. or if you’re a dude, at which time i get out my trusty Double Standard Gun and JUDGE THE SHIT OUT OF YOU.
