What do you suggest for figuring myself out? I can’t stop thinking about if I like girls or not (sometimes I think I do, sometimes not at all) and yet I still don’t know.
live your life
that’s how people figure things out
they live
how are you liking the lovely bay area (and earthquake weather)?
i have been happy most days of the week
Photographer Maro Hagopian documents the NYC queer scene; is an icon; throws a party; fosters a community.
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i know i can’t make her love me, but can i make myself stop caring that she doesn’t love me?
you will have to love you enough for the both of you
do you really have a daughter?! a few times, maybe three times, i’ve googled “the l chat” + riese/autostraddle so i could have something to be angry at.
yes intern emily choo is my spirit baby
girls like flowers right? I don’t think they worked…
some girls do
some girls like books or notes
some girls like cheeseburgers and diet cokes.
did you know that you can have soup sent directly to someone’s house? it’s true.
some girls like new stuff they’ve never seen before. they like for you to point with your finger and tell them what you know. wait, i guess most people like that.
but yeah, flowers are good.
There’s been a lot of extreme crazy going on lately, & I really don’t know how much more I can handle. A: Is okay if I just crawl under a rock somewhere and come out later? B: Will things ever calm down again? I think it was calmer at one time, right?
a: maybe keep your head poking out
b: yes. it was never calmer. but it will be calmer in ~2 months
I want to let a potential employer know that I’m a lesbian (it would give me an advantage, they specially asked for GLBT people to apply) without coloring my cover letter rainbow or putting it as a bullet point on my resume. How should I do this?
say you were on ‘the real l word’
put it on your resume
riese i have a weak chin, like you. do you feel self-conscious about it? sometimes i consider getting plastic surgery to fix mine. but i think maybe i would like myself less for doing that and also it would be a waste of money.
yes
i do
but don’t get surgery
have an imperfect face instead
i think that’s more interesting than surgery
So, I think I like girls. I amnot sure, and have always had long term relationships with guys. I don’t think I can help my feelings but am so confused and scared that I hate myself. How do I know? How do I deal?
try dating girls
kiss their faces
touch their body parts
laugh
Would you ever move back to Michigan? If you do will you meet me in the graffiti alley an give me an autograph/talk to me over coffee and be my best friend?
if i move back to michigan
i will move to northern michigan
and get a cabin in the woods
and teach children to write and build things with my hands
and talk about ideas/poems
and have people over and walk around a lot
go sledding
you can come over we’ll have a party
I’ve been hooking up with this girl for the past 2 weeks Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night. We both just got out of relationships (she did about a month ago). Her best friend keeps telling me to “take it slow.” Is there any hope or will it end badly?
once you start making out on tuesdays
then you’ll know shit is serious
because of glee