you should maybe thank her for saving you the trouble. but also it’s fair to mention that in the future you’d feel more comfortable being the one who tells people.
but! also! here’s the thing – once you’re out to one person, other people are going to find out w/out you telling them. that’s how this works. at first it feels like an intrusion or like you’re being gossiped about, but really people are just learning more about you, you know? it’s the same as if your mom had told your entire family that you’re doing yoga now.
i mean, it’s not exactly the same.
hm, i think you’ll find that rediscovering yourself is something that happens several times. for example, just last week the world was one thing and then suddenly it was something else, and i hadn’t even changed positions on the sofa.
i’d like to say it gets easier and maybe it does. you’re still you, though.
that i can say with authority.
Parentheses - The Blow
kelsey (justgotborn.tumblr.com) was singing this a few weeks ago, i remember
Jezebel publishes Autostraddle articles relatively often, which is awesome, and this comment on this post addresses something we really see all the time. I liked it.
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