Remember that time you got high and watched Adam Lambert’s E! True Hollywood story and had a lot of feelings about gender, boy-on-boy onstage kissing, the history of counterculture/glam rock,…
When I make love I take my whole life in my hands, the damage and the pride, the bad memories and the good, all that I am or might be, and I do indeed love myself, can indeed do anything I please. I know the place where courage and desire come together, where pride and joy push lust through the bloodstream, right to the heart… I go to bed like I used to go to karate. Want and need come together in a body that is only partly my own… I took my sex back, my body. I claimed myself and remade my life. Only when I knew I belonged to myself completely did I become capable of giving myself to another, of finding joy in desire, pleasure in our love, power in this body no one else owns.
Dorothy Allison via Autostraddle — NSFW Sunday Knows All The Things She Said About Lesbian Sex
I love butch women because no one else would ever have reached into that flannel-clad bundle of inarticulate erotic yearning with a mirror that reflected a sex goddess… I felt my sexual effect for the first time, and grew and grew like Alice in Wonderland drinking her magic potion. I love butch women because it was the synchronicity of butch sexual response that gave me my body… Women who decried being objectified had never had the opportunity to feel like this. They were an emblem of our sexual difference, those panties: We sinned, and shared our secret, together.
what does that say about me? that even my own parents didn’t want me
nothing.
it says nothing about you.
you say things about you.
i feel sad.
we’ve discussed this: Twilight (or Goonies) + pad thai (or any stir-fry situation)
orrrrr
read a book
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blow up my formspring
or you could make some brownies. that would be sweet. do you have any little old ladies you could go sit with for a while? sometimes i think my life would be a hell of a lot more complete if i had a little old lady nearby. you know?
Do you know of any good “guide-to-lesbian-sex” books? I want some new tricks to blow her mind.
Cleis Press is where you want to go
http://www.cleispress.com/
namely the Whole Lesbian Sex Book
http://www.cleispress.com/book_page.php?book_id=117
they also carry guides to cunnilingus and anal stuff. i think i have a guide to cunnilingus around here somewhere, actually. i think i’ve hidden it on the top shelf of my bookcase. hm.
when ur lady friend used to text msg u like crazy and call ALL THE TIME then somewhere later decides she needs ‘space’ ….does that mean its over ?
normally i’d say “just ask her” b/c i think honesty and forthrightness is important, but i’ve learned that i’m possibly the last person on earth who believes that, so i’d say go with your instincts. does it feel over? it’s probably over.
i met a boy i like, laneia, and i’m not sure what to do about it. he’s the first (and probably only) boy, and i’m scared the lesbians will think i’m a traitor. should i avoid the situation or see what happens?
you should definitely see what happens.
who gives a shit what the lesbians think.
seriously.
“Not everybody is Kurt on Glee.”
What are your feelings on lingerie football? Is it legitimate or just another way for women to be exploited? A case could be made that they’re empowering themselves, but I still feel like they’re taking something away from the women that play clothed.
in general these days; a job is a job, and women can do whatever they want with their bodies right, probs more fun than lingerie modeling.
however i don’t like super-fancygirly lingerie (on other people) or football. throw in some chicken wings and tony hawk and you’ve got my worst fucking nightmare. that being said, this doesn’t sound like a half-naked game of football, this sounds like a Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show on a football field. Right? I would google this, but then one day it will show up on my browser window and I’ll think about the chicken wings again.