So, how do I know if I’m actually depressed, like should probs be medicated depressed, or if I’m just dramatic? I feel kinda shitty all the time
see a psychologist. that’s how you know.
Today, the thought of pants was overwhelming. Have you ever felt this way?
i’m not wearing pants right now, so
I have to do a research paper in american history. The theme is marginalized voices, and I’m in the LGBTQ group. I need a topic… person / place / event / movement / movie / anything except Stonewall, pride (parades/movement), and DOMA. What should I do?
1. JAMES BALDWIN JAMES BALDWIN JAMES BALDWIN
2. ALICE WALKER ALICE WALKER ALICE WALKER
3. PARIS IS BURNING IS AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE IN INSTALLMENTS
i wish I could be over bras. one day, i tried not wearing a bra b/c i remembered how awesome it felt when i was 13 and i refused to wear a bra. then i realized that i actually do need a bra and my d-cups hurt if i don’t wear one. patriarchy: 1 me: 0
NO if you’re doing it because it’s comfortable / feels better, then the patriarchy has shit to do with it.
i’m 100% out but i’m dating a girl who isn’t. i didn’t mind at first because it was just casual but it turns out i really like her. i know it takes time, i’m not going to force her out of the closet but i’m also NOT going back in. what would you do?
probably cry about it a lot. i think you have to talk to her. i know that’s like the most boring/annoying advice. i don’t know, i’ve honestly never been in this situation. what if you did this a little at a time. what if she didn’t have to tell her mom but once in a while when you ate in a bertucci’s outside your hometown where you knew no one you held her hand and told the waiter “can you make sure there are no olives on that? my girlfriend really hates olives.” sometimes when things seem terrible and impossible, the olives really help.
How did you personally like the real l word? i kinda liked it :)
I thought the first half of the season were unwatchable but the last 3 eps were pretty entertaining. The cast probably gave the producers decent material to work with but the editor (and producers) fucked it up royally in the end. Some of the casting choices still confuse me. Overall, I did enjoy it but I did find it embarrassing and wouldn’t recommend it to my straight friends the way I recommended The L Word (OG).
Kate Moennig attends the premiere of The Lincoln Lawyer, Uh Huh Her releases “Black & Blue” EP and east coast tour dates, Jennifer Beals on Regis & Kelly, Glee’s Naya Rivera on “Brittana” and all…
It used to be okay to be gay and unfashionable. It was accepted. It was celebrated. Some of you young’uns won’t believe this, but there was a time when, as a proud lesbian woman, you could leave your house in white tennis shoes, a fleece sweater vest, and an oversized fanny pack and STILL PICK UP WOMEN. No one faulted you for your lack of fashion; no one cared. When I came out lo’ those many years ago, the only accessory a girl needed to have was a Swiss Army knife. If you felt like getting fancy, you might upgrade to a Leatherman and one of those belt holder things. They were simpler times. Wrist cuffs? Artistic plastic rings? Handbags? We didn’t even know how to pronounce those words!
What are your feelings about Wolfmother?? Go see them Y/N??
I liked Wolfmother for about 3 weeks in 2005. Then I think I OD’d, their songs were played to death on Australian radio.
You should go to the concert. i mean why not, right? It might be the closest you’ll ever come to seeing Led Zeppelin perform live.
Im halfway through an MA in marketing. My undergrad is in theatre studies and now Im reading annual reports and maximising shareholder return. Can a soul actually die/is is worth it? I have bills and a wife and a shit-ton of student debt…
you know, i was in your position, and much like you i wrote a desperate panicked message to my friends, and the best advice i got was “take the money and run.” emphasis on the running. there will come a point when you are done with student debt (or have less of it) and then it is time to make a graceful exit to the bills and wife.
unless you already feel like you’re going to vomit your entire insides out and lock yourself in the bathroom indefinitely, then maybe it’s not worth it.
Whats your type?
someone with a spiritual, relaxed vibe
who doesn’t need to be the center of attention but is still fun to be around and can tell an entertaining story
someone who makes me feel calm
someone who keeps their facebook for just real friends & family, not the stranger they met that one time at a party
a pretty girl with an edge
usually dark hair & eyes
What’s a nice way to say “How have you not gotten the fucking clue that I’m not interested? Also, please stop sending me messages”?
i would either nicely explain that you’re not interested in very explicit terms or fake my own death