Is it possible to like, stay friends with an ex? All the lesbians seem to still be friends with their exlovers, I haven’t managed so far
to answer your question, i will copy/paste another question i recently received:
“My life has only gotten better since I stopped trying to be friends with my ex. Does this make me a terrible person? Because I just feel good for once.”
so.
Is it ok to wear jeans on a first date? I’m a very dress down person and I don’t feel comfortable dressed up but I don’t want to look like I’m not making an effort. When we first met I was dressed up (and uncomfortable) and she is a dress up type.
if it’s not ok to wear jeans on a first date, i am a terrible date. i mean are you going to the four seasons or something? a good way to make dates suck is to be uncomfortable before they even start. there’s such a thing as nice jeans, like the kind i can wear to work on fridays without my mother being horrified. i would wear those and bring flowers?
how was today?
today is a little bit like the day after the world ends
except that it’s sunnier, and i ate some blueberries
Do you think everyone hates themselves? Do you hate yourself? Do you hate yourself less as you get older?
earlier today i was thinking how i wish we’d done a “girl-on-world” in Las Vegas because then we could title it “Fear and Self-Loathing in Las Vegas”
sidenote: i hated myself for most of my teenaged years/some of my early 20s – there are documents to this effect, lists and so on of how terrible or ugly i perceived myself to be – and now it’s like this double consciousness where i’m pretty sure that i’m awesome, but you know when you’re having sex with someone and you’re wearing really tight jeans and one leg gets stuck on your ankle and you’re trying to kick it off and your girlfriend is trying to push it off with her foot and then eventually it’s like there is no way to get that leg off while still looking sexy? self-loathing is sort of like that pants leg.
but you should love yourself. i mean everyone should. everyone who wants to be loved is worthy of love and self-love because how can you hate a thing that is trying so hard. we’re all just trying so hard. it’s beautiful, what we do to be loved.
tUne-yArDs is the future
So I think this is the best playlist for the day.