I had no idea it was possible to make it all the way to Los Angeles from San Francisco in only 14 hours!
Rachel, how can I ask a girl out to eat, without giving her the feeling I am pursuing a relationship with her? This girl is sweet and fun but she’s not looking for a relationship. I don’t want to scare her. Sincerely, SillyLesbian
i think if you say the words “let’s go get sandwiches” and she hears “let’s be in a relationship” then that is her deal, not yours
“Each From Different Heights”
That time I thought I was in love
and calmly said so
was not much different from the time
I was truly in love
and slept poorly and spoke out loud
to the wall
and discovered the hidden genius
of my hands
And the times I felt less in love,
less than someone
were, to be honest, not so different
either.
Each was ridiculous in its own way
and each was tender, yes,
sometimes even the false is tender.
I am astounded
by the various kisses we’re capable of.
Each from different heights
diminished, which is simply the law.
And the big bruise
from the longer fall looked perfectly white
in a few years.
That astounded me most of all.
- Stephen Dunn, via Pure Poetry #34
Could you please write a post about how fucking amazing and talented and gorgeous Sara Ramirez is? She deserves all the exposure she can get <3. Or maybe even interview her? I feel like she’d be cool with that. Cuz queer people love her. And she loves us!
I feel ya. I love her too. Tried to interview her last year but she was “done with interviews for the year.” Let me look into it for the remaining season…. I dig her!
Did you wake up today completely f*cking at a loss as to what the status of marriage equality is in yours or neighboring states? Chances are something in this post will help.
how bad do you want one of these stickers
(you will be able to order one online very soon, kittens!)
Riese sometimes I feel like you used you love us more before, are we getting on your nerves with all our questions/comments?
no! my love grows deeper every day, it’s just been a busy week.
i can’t decide if i should bring my doc martens, frye boots, or cowboy boots to dinah. the advantage to the docs is that they feel like “me” and haviland likes them with this one dress i’ve packed but probably won’t wear b/c i’ll wear pants instead. the frye boots look really good apparently but there’s something about them that i find uncomfortable. the cowboy boots are comfortable and they look really good, but i guess they don’t go with anything else that i’m packing. i should just forget it, right? and like just pack my chuck taylors and some black pants and call it a day. right?
can you join the army if you have a beehive hairstyle
Did you know that the beehive hairstyle is also referred to as a ‘B-52’ because it resembles the nose of a B-52 bomber? For that reason alone I feel like the army should be supportive of your hairstyle choice. Also, I don’t know the answer to this question.
is there really a MEN post coming up? that would be amazing
I am 50% certain that Jess G. is in the process of writing an autostraddle post about MEN.
Women lose their lives not knowing they can do something different. Men eat themselves up believing they have to be the thing they have been made. Children go crazy. Really, even children go crazy, believing the shape of the life they must live is as small and mean and broken as they are told.
The new release allows people to engage in a wide variety of romantic options - whether your avatar is male or female, whether you’re gay or straight. Let’s call it “Equal Opportunity Romance.”…