tally as of april 19, 11:15 PM
$13,897!
Whoa Laneia is it bad in all situations to let a girl pick you up from your house on a 1st date? Is this because that’s coming on too strong or is it because you might be unsafe ish? And what if I offered to buy her tix to the show?!
+ why do you think it’s wrong to pay (or let her pay) on a first date? i find it kind of awkward to split the bill, makes it seem more friend-y and less date-y
+ Why is it bad to let the other girl pay on the first date? What if you pick up the tab the second date?
i just think it’s best to be as independent as possible on the first freaking date! why would you let a complete stranger pay for your food? that’s fucking weird.
also seriously re: meeting at the destination vs. being picked up, what if the date is terrible? do you want to be trapped there without your own way home? or worse, be in charge of taking her home after a horrible date? no you do not.
god no one ever listens to me.
so this might be alittle off topic but have you ever read anything interesting about oprah? like scholarly-ish something? i read this article once that was about her being apolitical or the problem with self-helpy stuff and now i can’t find it. i kind
i usually read every article in bitch magazine and sometimes those articles are about oprah. maybe it was one of these two:
http://bitchmagazine.org/article/egos-without-borders
http://bitchmagazine.org/article/eat-pray-spend
When you know you love someone and you have for years, but they dont love you and you cant ever tell them, what do you do?
find someone new to love
if you can’t tell them
that takes all the fun out of it
you know?
find someone you can tell.
I’m meeting a girl tomorrow that I met on okc, she wants to pick me up at my house but I’m not sure I feel comfortable about it. What should I do? Also, I think she wants to have sex but I’m not sure I want to. What should I do?
no no no no no
you do not let someone pick you up at your house on a first date.
and since you’re asking for my opinion, here are some other things you shouldn’t do on the first date (or at the very least, it should be your goal to not do these things) according to me, laneia:
+ let her pay
+ have sex
+ talk about your ex-fucking-girlfriend
+ drink too much
I want there to be more Skins to watch. Should I cave and watch the US version?
i don’t think the US version will satiate your appetite for additional Skins
Yeah, I’m more kind of like the guy when it comes to girls. I’m the dominant one. I’m opening the doors, I’m buying dinner. Yeah, I’m romantic.
Evan Rachel Wood to Esquire magazine via Autostraddle — Evan Rachel Wood is Bisexual, Toppy, Romantic, Will Pay For Dinner
What does bcw even mean? Not boneless chicken wings, right? Or even bureau of child welfare? I need this cleared up stat otherwise I can’t open my new you do you stickers…
bcw addressed this issue here:
http://autostraddle.tumblr.com/post/4078764926/what-does-bcw-stand-for
but for a good long while, i considered just typing ‘yes, boneless chicken wings. that’s it.’
What are your favorite songs from rent?
- take me or leave me
- finale B
- i’ll cover you
- i should tell you