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I’ve been seeing this girl for 2 weeks. She identifies as bisexual & online dating men&women. We have romantic chemistry & nearly had sex the other nite (3rd date) but i’m worried she’s dating others(M&W).It’s too early for the talk but i need to be safe

If she is dating guys i could be exposed to god knows what.. but i don’t wanna scare her off. Should I keep holding out for sex even though we’re both dying to? It’s only been 2 weeks so it really is too soon for the exclusivity talk i guess? help!

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“If she is dating guys i could be exposed to god knows what..”

SIGH.

i don’t want to yell at you because i’m sure you’re a great person with a smile that could light up the night but ARE YOU FCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS BI-PHOBIC CRAP.
the only time someone hasn’t or couldn’t have been exposed to ‘god knows what’ is if they are virginal. you don’t have to be bisexual to possibly have an STD. even gold star lesbians can get STDs! and they can EVEN get them from OTHER gold star lesbians!

moreover, being bisexual doesn’t automatically make you a walking STD factory OBVIOUSLY.

i want to believe that you’ve read autostraddle, as well as other things like books, and i want to believe that you’re a reasonable, intelligent human. so i’m just going to link to this article that i’m sure you’ve already bookmarked and reference frequently!

http://www.autostraddle.com/safe-sex-for-lesbians-45382

additionally, if you’re ready to have sex, you’re ready to have a talk about sex. it’s not so much about exclusivity as it is the well-being, etc. of your vaginas and mouths and whatever else you had in mind. you know?

people! talking about sex w/r/t safety and responsibility is totally a thing!

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Hey! I bet you are sick to the back teeth of sticker questions, so sorry! But how large are the You Do You stickers? How much does it cost to have them sent outside America? Thank you.

the stickers are 2" x 3.5" and there’s a flat shipping cost of 50 cents for them, whether International or not! :)

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what font did you use for rodeo disco 2? i am a geek

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OMG I always thought that Brandy Howard was with Julie Goldman, heart broken I am.

OMG I always thought that Kate Moennig was with Holly Miranda, but then someone pointed out to me that Kate Moennig hasn’t ever said that she’s a lesbian or bisexual or anything, heart broken I am.

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what advice do you have for getting tall girls to talk to me at parties like this one im going to tomorrow with lots of lesbians but they are mostly short, but sometimes tall too!. i mean ’?’ ps i am kind of tall but nothing to get excited about

this question makes me wish i were taller so i could talk to you at parties.

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Have you ever been into someone, then you begin to be turned off by them because they get too drunk sometimes? Like, you can’t have a proper conversation when one of you is too drunk, so what’s the point?

ok, seriously? that was ONE TIME. or at worst, SEVERAL TIMES.

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Hey when are you going to do the Glee recap?

I’M DOING IT RIGHT NOW
i’m sorry – I’M SORRY!
i am for real, you totally have a right to be annoyed, it should be up by now.

right now we’re doing a ton of stuff behind-the-scenes to get our asses lined up to take off into outer space which means AS on BLAST which also means that although i’m intensely fucking happy, my days just got a little busier and i’m still sorting through how to balance it all out, but i think i can/will.

also I’m sorta having a hard time writing it? I don’t have anything to say is that weird. The later it is, the more I worry about how it’s not gonna be funny. Luckily though, I have lots of pictures.

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WAIT. Hold the phones. Brandy Howard is straight?? Am I dumb for not knowing this?

yannow, for a population of people
who spend, i presume,
inordinate amounts of free time
speculating about the secret lesbian affairs
of the ‘straight’ actresses you admire –
you’re really letting me down today

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I’ve been on top of the world these past few weeks and I just made out a few times with the girl I’ve been crushing on for a while. I feel like my house of cards is about to collapse. Is it? I’m scared.

you can’t think that way, baby. houses are nice, cards are nice, makeouts are nice. try to take a deep breath and enjoy them; if things are going to collapse, there’s nothing you can do to stop it, so you might as well let the good parts feel good.

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She said she doesn’t like my thick wrists. To get her back I want to insist on wearing long-sleeves to cover them at all times (especially during sex). Yes?

i feel like that has ‘chafing’ written all over it. i think you should just tell her that you don’t like her being a bitch about your wrists.

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