well, assuming you know the whole story – yeah! i don’t think it’s unfair to want your father to be a good guy, especially when it relates to someone that you really care about (your mom). it doesn’t really matter that it’s about money. it’s just you want a person to do right by the people you care about.
i’ve had a personal journal of some kind since i was like 3 (i dictated to my parents before i could write). i seem to write most when i’m upset. there’s years where it’s like a work of art, with photos and drawings and tickets and words cut out everywhere and i’m writing a few times a day. there’s years where i only write when i have too many feelings or secrets but i don’t have any feelings/secrets, so i update monthly at best.
it seems i write in my journal most while in transport. on trains, or planes. full of feelings re: where i’m going, who will be there. but also being transported is a perfect time to write in your journal. so lately, i guess i write in my journal every time i’m upset or take the BART alone.
i’ve recorded my whole life, all of it. it’s all accounted for.
There are sex tips for straight people yelling at us from every newsstand!
But what about lesbians? WHERE ARE OUR MONTHLY SEX TIPS!!?
Autostraddle aims to remedy this oppressive state of inequality by soliciting sex tips from its readers for upcoming NSFW Sundays. That’s YOU! We’d do it ourselves but everyone on Team Autostraddle is a virgin waiting for marriage* to take off our boyshorts, though we do have a lot of insight on first base.
We must empower lesbians to be able to enjoy “Bad Girl Sex” or “Badass Moves With a Naughty Twist You Both Love,” just like whomever it is that actually still buys Cosmo.
SO! Email autostraddle [at] gmail dot com. Title your email LESBIAN SEX TIP.
Anything and everything — that hot position you just discovered, something you wish you’d known for your first time, the vibrator that changed your life, how fisting/scissoring works, tips for going down on your lady, the way you can make your partner orgasm, etc.
Each individual tip should be no more than 100 words. Feel free to give as many as you want.
If you’d like to be credited for your tip, say so and give us your name/website. If not, that’s cool!
*Please RT so we can make you all into Superlovers asap.
We use all different kinds! Cafe Bustello, all kinds of Trader Joes coffee, and Starbucks “Cafe Estima” blend is special. Besides the Bustello, always whole bean so that you grind it up right before using it. You know? Oh and Croce does this amazing thing where she puts a few dashes of cinnamon at the top of the grinds in the machine. HEAVEN.
Even in Canada, where everyone is suposed to be nice, two-thirds of gay students feel unsafe in school. Oh, kids. No matter where you look, they’re finding a way to be assholes.
you act like it’s The Most Normal Thing on Earth b/c heyyyyy-o it totally is! wheee!
and like your stiff-assed roommate never left the peanut butter out? come on.
they sure do! taking strap-ons with you on trips is totally a thing! strap-ons in your carry-on. strap-ons in your suitcase. strap-ons in your backpack. strap-ons in your designer handbag. strap-ons in your toolbox. strap-ons in your trunk. strap-ons in your glove compartment. strap-ons in your camera bag. strap-ons in a puppy crate. strap-ons in your lunch box. strap-ons in your laundry bag. strap-ons in a cookie tin. strap-ons under your top hat.
