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when is it appropriate to tell someone you are casually seeing that you see a therapist/are on medication?

i don’t know if ‘appropriate’ is a word i would use? i mean, what is 'appropriate’ anyway? camels? slide-out keyboards? seifeld on blu-ray?
i don’t know.
mko and i talked about medications and therapies while we sat on the sidewalk after first brunch, and that talk seemed totally appropriate / made me never want to stop looking at her shoes.
and we were very casual in that we were not dating at all really, so i guess the answer is “when it seems like the next obvious thing to say after what she / you just said.”

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So fellow white males, if in the future you’re filled with the desire to take on the persona of a minority and write about experiences as though you are that person, do us all a favor and watch an Avatar/Dances With Wolves double feature and get it out of your system. And then maybe find someone on the ground who actually is a member of that minority and help get their voice heard. Or make your own writing interesting enough that people won’t care that it came from a while male. It’s not like they care most of the time.
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i’ve been friends with this girl for a while and we’ve gone to a concert together which was filled with SO much flirting, and one time she hung out at my house. i asked her out so what exactly should we do for our date/how do i approach this?

it sounds like you’ve already done a pretty solid job of approaching this. based on my own interests and those of our readership, i am going to say you should buy her a cup of coffee and a sandwich and then make out with her.

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how did you end up getting involved with autostraddle?

i was abroad during november of ‘08, and while there was still coverage of the election all over the world it was hard to find coverage of what was happening with prop 8, and i was really worried about it. while looking through blogs that were talking about it i found a bunch of lesbian blogs doing this thing called “8 against 8,” and one of them was autowin. i looked through it for a while and sent in a photo for the no on 8 collage that riese was doing, but then was like “this is stupid, there’s nothing about prop 8 on here” and went on to something else.

later i checked back and realized it was actually a pretty funny/beautiful/great thing, and read through a lot more of it. i noticed she kept mentioning this autostraddle thing she was starting, but i wasn’t really into the l word so i never checked it out. except eventually i did, and i think it was around the time of NYC pride, and everyone seemed so happy/pretty/fun/funny/awesome. everything they wrote about was smart and good and the idea of a group of gay girl friends in real life was still novel to me.

then there was a call for intern applications and unpaid internships were pretty much my thing all through college, so i applied. then i was an intern but also consistently the only person who was always at home and always ready to write and then i spent like a million hours one week writing prop 8 recaps and then i think after that riese moved my picture from the intern section of the team page to somewhere else

and then hilarity ensued

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