laneia here is a haiku/for autostraddle and you/thanks for all you do heart
you give me reasons / to wake at seven a.m. / in the summertime
i feel like i need to tell people i like girls but i want to tell my most important life people first but that’s harder so i don’t tell the easy people either so no one really knows
just write everyone an email like max did when he wanted to change his name
is love always thrilling and exciting and adrenaline rush-y or is it most of the time comfort/cuddles/tv/the grocery store?
i find the grocery store thrilling
i think love is always finding the grocery store thrilling
is finding cuddling thrilling
I am planning an elaborate camping trip with some old friends. However, we don’t like one of our friends anymore (clueless, whiny, needy), and she lives far away. She’ll be devastated if we don’t invite her, but she’ll ruin my week if she comes. WWRD?
all i can think about is that one episode of skins with michelle’s stepsister. that ended okay? sort of?
Have you heard of Foster the People? Because if you haven’t they should definitely be your new favorite band…
I have! They are! They’re coming to australia soon and I am sad that i cannot see them.
Where should I being with James Baldwin?
i started with reading the fire next time and go tell it on the mountain pretty much simultaneously, which was really intense. i would recommend starting with TFNT (which is essays btw) for sure, esp. because it’s short. after that you could try giovanni’s room, which is probably the gayest if we’re keeping score, or another country, which is my favorite ever ever. there’s no bad place, though, so that’s the good news!
he also wrote an open letter to angela davis that i like a lot, it is pretty easy to find online i think
supposing there was impending firsttime sexytimes on the horizon. except it’s not ‘the bottom’s’ first time, only the 'top’s’… what do? who goes first?! is there even an order. oh god, help.
these labels, i just, i don’t know how to answer this. i feel like, unless you’re seriously rigid about your role, you’ll just somehow be naked and somehow someone will have their parts either inside or on top of someone else’s parts and it will feel good and everyone will have to be really careful not to annoy the neighbors.
i mean, hopefully.
cara from the coffee bean is very attractive therefore you should keep in contact with her.
you’re right about this
I asked the College/University question, thanks for the responses I think I understand that now. But I must now ask what’s a “Community College”? (I’m from the UK so this is all very confusing) we just have Sixth Form/F.E College, H.E College/University
i honestly am not sure how to explain? they are less expensive, so that is nice. i think there is currently a TV show about this, you could try watching that
i met the most perfect girl on okc and i can’t reconcile the fact that she’s into me. she’s brilliant and funny and adorable and looks like a hotter version of january jones. i feel…doofy. i feel doofy.
stop feeling doofy and get some new shoes or something. there’s a brilliant funny adorable hot girl who probably wants to walk around in public with you. focus.
I hurt a girl by not feeling the same way when she told me she loved me. I miss her friendship a a ton, and it’s weird to see her socially and not be friends. How can you build friendships out of the wreckage of relationships or almost-relationships?
i think you have to make jokes about it
that is the only way i know to fix anything awful