one month, ONE MONTH till I’m gone for a while on the other side of the world, any advice?
take lots of pictures.
Laneia! The dyed red hair is a red herring! She could just be hipster. More info needed.
no the red hair is irrelevant! she’s working in IT, has an alt-life haircut and was described as ‘cute.’ if anything, her hair is working against her gayness, as it’s too obvious and clearly just a reference to nineties subculture.
I’m questioning.. How do I know?
for some people, questioning is just as good as knowing, because not everyone questions, you know? so it’s kind of like, just by virtue of the question itself being so unique, you already have your answer.
BUT I MEAN, THAT’S GENERALIZING.
which are your favourite skins characters from each generation?
i have a confession: i haven’t actually watched the second cycle yet because there was this one episode in season 2 that actually ended happily, and i haven’t been able to bring myself to go on to the next episode where i know that it will all just go to shit.
but also, jal and chris forever.
opinions/thoughts/feelings on Bukowski?
i remember reading his story “the most beautiful woman in town” and liking it when i was young. i like his poetry. there is a bar called bukowski’s somewhere in this city i think, but i have never been. it seems like a good name for a bar.
In your opinion, what are the best Tegan and Sara songs to have sex to?
Climbed up on the rainbow
Just to see if I’d fall off
I’m a frosted lemon coward
And I don’t know how
No don’t know how to hold you without shaking
No I’m not aware of how I could possibly love you
without aching
Yes I give you everything
Yes I give you anything
I gave you everything
Gotta watch myself
I’ve gotta love myself
And take care
And so keep the light on before ya’ hop into bed
‘Cuz ,baby, this is the last honest love I’ll ever give
I saved up all my sunshine just to see you more clear
I’m a little short on sorrow and I haven’t given in
No I’m going to hold you anyway and I’ll do it without shaking
Yes I’ll love you always and I’ll do it without aching
Yes I’d give you anything
Yes I’d give you anything
I gave you everything
Gotta watch myself
I’ve gotta love myself
And take care
And so keep the light on before ya’ hop into bed
‘Cuz, baby, this is the last honest love I’ll ever give
I give you everything
I give you anything
I gave you everything
Gotta watch my self
I’ve gotta love myself
And take care
This is your last love
This is your last love
This is your last love
Yeah this is your last love
This is your last love
This is your last love
And so keep the light on before ya’ hop into bed
‘Cuz, baby, this is the last honest love I’ll ever give
Riese is it weird that I find the ability to play Sudoku, attractive?
i used to write for a magazine that was for like, christian high school kids, ‘cause it was easy or whatever and they paid well, and i had to write an article about sudoku, which i knew nothing about, and it was called “DO U SUDOKU: Gymnastics For The Brain”
Laneia’s Team Pick: “Posters for every day events. No activity in your life is too boring or mundane.”
I’m 20, at university, and was diagnosed with genital herpes after my first sexual encounter, turns out the NHS doesn’t routinely screen for herpes :/ What advice would you give me? I’m desperately looking for a really good site/resource/blog!
planned parenthood!
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/stds-hiv-safer-sex-101.htm
even if you’re not in the u.s., this is a good place to start w/r/t learning things. if you are in the u.s., you can make an appointment online. planned parenthood is all about you being a queer chick and not being treated like shit because of it, so you should feel really safe and taken care of.
good luck :)
the worst part is, she’s going to come home from camp, and it still won’t be here. why does this even happen.
i don’t know why anything ever happens ever.
but at least she’s coming home.
and from camp! i love camp.
tonight she wouldn’t stop crying and i was getting so angry, and when i finally put her down she woke up ten minutes later, i can’t keep getting angry laneia, i want a haircut, this tiny bundle won’t stop crying, it’s so hard
i want a haircut too! you’ll get a haircut.
one night she won’t be crying, she’ll be sleeping. or maybe staying up to watch a movie with you. or she’ll be making brownies in the kitchen with her friends . or she will be crying, but it’ll be because she still has homework to do or someone broke her heart, and if you think your hair doesn’t matter now, just wait!