you’re not single?? :( whats your girlfriend’s social security number so i can have her murdered? what? who said that?
well now we have a paper trail :-)
–havilandHaviland, your name is really cool. Is there a story behind it?
see below – answered this a little while ago. ;-)
love and light!
favorite smoothie?
hi it’s haviland!
ummm. i don’t really drink them, but strawberries, bananas and ice should be involved.
Hi Haviland. I’m dating a girl who is awesome and hot, and I like hanging out/hooking up with her, but I know I’m not going to fall for. Am I wasting my time? I’m kind of sick of feeling the extremes of happy/sadness, but then I worry if I’m settling.
You’re never wasting your time unless you feel like you are. Dating can just be dating if you both want it to be.
Haviland I am so. scared. about the future. It’s time to jump and I can’t make myself go. Any words of advice for starting anew?
fear is really a huge waste of your energy. srsly, HUGE. it’s better to be in love than in fear, so do that! LOVE the future. it’s going to be really really wonderful!
haviland what are your fave musicals? do you play instruments? what’s your definition of success? how do you look with short hair? very important questions!
fave musicals are into the woods, (anything sondheim), loads of them, too many to name, i play piano somewhat, i look like clara bow with short hair, definition of success is feeling free and confident and WINNING :-)
explain california to us, for those of us who can only dream!
hi it’s haviland!
Cali is a land of magical land of sunshine and hearts and stars
haviland, i want you to be my spiritual fairy gaymother.
hi! done and done, sweetheart!
http://www.twitter.com/misshaviland
how weird/creepy is it that i send random drawings/ inspirational messages to random addresses in the US with no return address, because its always been my dream to receive one so i thought i should maybe start sending them. should i stop?
hi it’s haviland! i think that’s kind of sweet and innocent? i mean…are you sending it to their homes? I would say if it’s to their agent or mgr, it’s all good. don’t stop being positive, ever!
Hi Haviland! I see everything in black and white and I’m not sure it’s a good thing. Any advice for how to stop doing that?
open those pretty eyes and identify all the colors! NOTHING is black and white. nothing. time to ascend, baby bird.
HAVILAND I LOVE YOU! PLEASE MARRY ME!
you know that scene in UNICORN PLAN-IT episode 3, where vick tells the bartender her little spiel on how she feels about marriage? i wrote that. ;-)
having said that, thank you for the love!
Do you really teach over Skype? How much do you charge?
hi it’s haviland!
i do teach over skype! email teachmehaviland@hotmail.com and we’ll discuss $
So I’m 20 and have never been on a date. Or anything close. And it’s not even that I haven’t tried asking girls out it’s just literally ALL of them have been straight. It’s like im a straight girl magnet really. Why?!
hi it’s haviland!
most gay girls have straight chicks throwing themselves our way when we are first coming out. we’re like a novelty to them, i think. decide that you want to meet an amazing gay woman who is out and comfortable with herself. i promise it’ll happen.
Haviland! If you could give one piece of advice for an aspiring (lesbian) singer, what would it be?
work really hard and be really aware.
do you have a voice teacher? you should coach with me. i teach in LA and over skype – teachmehaviland@hotmail.com if you’re interested
Do you believe in love at first sight?
hi it’s haviland! yes, of course! and 2nd and 3rd and 4th…love is all around