i dont have any tattoos.does this make me an uncool lesbian?
no, but it does mean that my mom would like you more.
riese you make me Laugh Out Loud for reals, that’s a compliment
i hate it when i make people laugh out loud for fakeys,
that’s the worst! so glad you’re keeping it ‘real’
Mikey: “When two chicks go down on each other, that’s not sex". Raquel: “Fingerbanging does not count as sex, but other kinds of penetration are sex.” Whitney: “Oral sex exchange” is not “full sex.” Am I the only one who disagrees with these?!
“asking this question to me AND Laneia, as you’ve done, is oral sex exchange”
Do you know where can I buy a “good”/simple black wristband?
lucky dog leather
tell them autostraddle sent you
no seriously, we all have them and they’re perfect
In Part 3 of the series, we’ll be addressing issues like dealing with internalized transphobia, going “stealth”, and how you can help your partner if they are struggling with gender dysphoria. PLUS a…
She is unsure about me because there is someone else who is a possibility. How long do I wait and see before running for the hills? We haven’t known each other very long, but there is something there
you know, the pragmatist in me wants to say that sounds like a disaster and you should get out now, but the person in me who has been i think on both sides of this at some point in her life a few times would say approximately ~3.5 months. but really try to keep your emotional distance as much as possible, as hard as that may be. don’t make any plans or envision your life together in four months, just take each day as it comes and expect nothing. that will help a little bit. but i don’t know, maybe it’s just in my experience when someone waits precisely that long, it’s always worth it. you don’t keep something you don’t want around for 3.5 months. that means there is something there. so. good luck!
I cant do long distance, first of all ive never even met her. I cant meet someone online and date them, its just not me. But I think shes going towards that I hinted in the beginning that I couldnt but idk if she took the hint.How do I slowly stop this?
don’t slowly stop it, just actually stop it all at once.
So what are you supposed to do when your girlfriend of many years suddenly goes insane and leaves you for someone they barely even know?
i think that’s when you put everything in boxes and find something new. or find yourself. both.
1) Did Alison Bedchel for real comment on your Fun Home Book Club post?! 2) I haven’t started it yet! Am I out?
1. yess!!!!
2. no! you are safe here, this is a girl-girl thing.