It’s Thea!
so, lea is haviland’s ex-girlfriend?
no, they were never girlfriends
you guys are such weirdos about this!
though i guess it wouldn’t be so funny if it wasn’t funny
So I ordered a poster and 2 shirts at the same time. Today just the poster arrived. Is that okay/normal or should I be concerned?
that’s normal, everything ships separately because we’re idiots and decided to make styles of merchandise that all required totally different shipping methods. it’s like hannukahistis but 2-3 times!!!
I wore my Autostraddle T for the first time this weekend - thanks for handling fulfillment on that! My wife and I got it on for the first time in about a yeas this weekend. Coincidence? I think not.
Riese and Marni handle the shipping of the shirts now :) I will pass this on!
Lizz’s Team Pick: Hey Girl, Kristen Stewart makes an appearance in the best new tumblr ever.
laneia how do i seduce the blue haired lesbian who I have platonic sleepovers with sometimes? we dont’s have much in common…
lips. you have lips in common.
I’m freaking out because the lease is up in a month and I think I want to break up with my girlfriend, but I have no money for my own place and don’t have anyone who can help me. Please let me know everything will be okay. Please?
EVERYTHING WILL BE OK.
are you month-to-month after the end of the lease? that’s usually how these things go, right? just look at your life as month-to-month. save some money.
also though, a shared lease isn’t a wedding cake. you can always leave.
what do I do if I’m constantly starting to get a mullet situation because the back of my hair grows really fast but none of my friends are willing to help because they’re scared of messing it up even though I’m like IT WILL BE FINE JUST HACK IT OFF GDI
Drive to Boston. I'l take care of this for you.
I need a alternative lifestyle haircut so i can be alternative lifestyle haircute! I have long Curly Hair. Tips?
Haircute? Cute.
I like sort on the sides with sort of a thing that would be a mohawk except then you just put some product in it and kind of wear it messy and forward.
Also undercuts are cool.
I’ve been a femme all 24 years of my life but recently I feel like long hair, dresses and bows don’t suit my identity. I’m interested in mixing in a tomboi look but have no idea where to start and don’t really want to spend alot of money. Any tips?
I’d start with the Autostraddle T-shirt. Then add in some jeans a blazer. If you’re busty you might want to investigate a binder and/or a tight sports bra. Boots are really important.
This is also a cool blog: http://www.turnedout.tv/
I am going to meet up with a girl who I’m in an online relationship with. She’s been there and done that before, many times. But I haven’t even kissed anyone yet. Do I tell her? I feel like a failure being nearly 20 and never having done anything before.
i feel like i should tell you that honesty is the best policy
and you should be who you are
but also, i TOTALLY lied about my experience level before my first kiss to the point that i think i’ve invented a memory in my head of this non-existent pre-first-kiss-kiss
has anyone ever told you to act “as if”?
act as if.
just because i think that will make you feel calmer
imagining that you’re a person who has been there and done that.
then if you guys like fall in love and start dating then you can reveal the truth and when she asks why did you lie to me, you can say it’s my fault, and direct her here, and then she can send me a stern email to put in my Stern Email Collection.
ALSO YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE and like 16 of you people between the ages of 15 and 30 formspring me every day saying you feel too inexperienced bla bla bla you’re fine! as i believe we mentioned in the “how to have lesbian sex” post, just because your body hasn’t done it before doesn’t mean it doesn’t know how to do it. it does. you’re an animal. face it.