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Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

My jealousy about her is killing me. What do I do?

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you have to figure out where it’s coming from

because either:

1. she’s being crazy because you’ve let her get away with it thus far, and people will be precisely as crazy as you let them be! i think we’re all sort of insanely jealous underneath but you’re supposed to like, reign that in, with trust and respect and an understanding of why you feel how you feel. if she’s being jealous/possessive for literally no reason, then she needs to cut it the fuck out, and she won’t until you put your foot down.

2. she’s been burned/cheated on before and is petrified of letting something happen under her nose again.

3. she flirts with other girls or cheats on you when she’s out, and it’s hard to trust your partner more than you trust yourself.

4. you are cheating on her or flirt with lots of other girls and therefore warrant jealousy. (according to YOU, even secretly, not her)

seriously the super-jealous-possessive lesbian situation is like an epidemic, it’s completely unacceptable and it’s NOT normal and it’s not the way things have to be. i feel like girls are always putting up with this like it’s par for the course.

she will push you as far as you let her. this is always true. people go just as far as they can. it steamrolls until you let it crash or stop it.

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