I broke it off. I thought it was for the best. Months have passed, but I miss her still. Alot. I’m the only one who ever initiates contact. Sometimes she’s responsive. Other times we pretend I didn’t text. I’m dumb. Now what?
you should try to win her back then
like in the movies
and also in real life
in your life!
put a lot of effort into it and if it feels like too much effort, then you know you just want what you can’t have.
but if she lets you back in, you can’t hurt her again.
be sure you’re sure.
maybe start with a letter listing all the things you love about her
She has dated dudes in the past, but she’s so cute and gives me free coffee from the kiosk. This is worth investigating, no?
yes this sounds like a win-win
have you ever not wanted to be a writer?
between the ages of ~13-18 i wanted to be a filmmaker
i thought i was a good writer but not a great writer
like, not enough
i’ve wanted to be a teacher, too.
it comes and goes
also this one time we went to sea world
and i decided i wanted to be a marine biologist
for like three days
THREE PAIRS OF LESBIANS
Three adorkable couples brought together thanks to Autostraddle. The power of lesbians on the internet.
Also today I am thankful for:
Heather
Autostraddle
The fact it isn’t raining in Glasgow as I have errands to run
Finding my MLitt Reflexive Essay
Getting my application for the New Scottish Writers aware in on time. Like, with a WHOLE HALF HOUR to spare.
Heather again because she’s awesome.
Sports.
I’m not a little, skinny, cute lesbian. I’m what some nice folks like to call “full figured”. I want to get that big, button-up shirt, skinny jeans, & ankle boots (think Sara Quin) - but I’d just look silly. How can I be a big. comfy. fashionable lesbian?
Try buying your clothes plus size. As long as your clothing fits well you will never look silly. I have huge hips but I wear skinny jeans and ankle boots all the time and I think they look awesome.
i’m going to a high school stereotype party as a lesbian. what should i wear? (ps i am a lesbian, i just don’t look like one)
Maybe like some cammo or green baggy men’s cargo pants from Old Navy and a tight black T-shirt with Tegan and Sara on it and a chain necklace.
What’s cute and femme-y lingerie that I won’t look ridiculous/feel stupid in?
I buy the 5 for 25 Victoria’s Secret Pink collection. The “cheekier” bikini cut. They mostly say things like, “I heart late nights” or “above average” or have zebras on them. I don’t feel stupid or ridiculous because I’m too busy looking adorable.
Make sure the underwear you get doesn’t cut in on the sides.
so i remember from your intro article on as that you work in lab? what’s a good lab outfit? you know, we’re supposed to wear closed toe shoes and all that. i just stick with my jeans and vnecks and converses but they get boring sometimes.
Mostly that’s what I wear in the lab, but I wear boots instead of sneakers. Also I change up my cardigan and scarf every day.