“It’s possible, in a poem or a short story, to write about commonplace things and objects using commonplace but precise language, and to endow those things— a chair, a window curtain, a fork, a stone, a woman’s earring— with immense, even startling power. It is possible to write a line of seemingly innocuous dialogue and have it send a chill along the reader’s spine— the source of artistic delight, as Nabokov would have it. That’s the kind of writing that most interests me.”
― Raymond Carver
i’m straight. my bff just came out and is now in a serious relationship with a girl. she hinted she had a crush on me before. no more friendly cuddling? no more sleepovers? i want to be respectful of their relationship. any special rules i should follow?
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I need Deanne Smith’s haircut on my head. What should I tell a hairdresser to achieve this effect?
DUDE. you have to take a picture of deanne smith to the hairdresser and then say something to the effect of PLEASE MAKE ME LOOK LIKE THIS FINE YOUNG OMNIVORE.
speaking of deanne smith, don’t you miss her? i sure do.
There were huge strides for the queer community this year, while we lost ground for reproductive rights. What made the difference, and how can we make more progress on both fronts in 2012?










