what is your opinion on staying in unrequited love with your best friend for years?
well, i mean, it sort of sucks, no?
how are you spending christmas?
on christmas day i woke up and went to lunch and then went home and ate strudel and drank vodka and then kitty papi and i watched ‘the perfect man’ on the tv
Recently I’ve been crying, on average, 3-5 times a day. Is this problematic or okay?
sometimes that is sort of just how things go. play it as it lays, as riese says
My best friend and I have some major lesbifriends subtext going on and I think we might makeout. Will everything change or is this ok?
everything will change, which could be okay
I have been dating the same guy for two years, and am bisexual. Lately, I have been realizing that I like girls far more than guys, but how do I break that to him? Especially since he’s my best friend.
this sounds really really hard. but i think the sooner the better is for the best? do we have an update on this sitch? please report
hi rachel, what is the proper way to ask out a girl who asked me out a while ago but i turned down? I dont want her to think im just screwing with her head.
“god i just really don’t want you to think i’m screwing with your head, but can i buy you a coffee?”
I am getting to be obsessed with my gf. I spend all my time waiting for her texts or emails and i stalk her fb. My life is getting to be being her gf. She has no idea I do this or think this way. I don’t know how to stop. I’m acting crazy. Help!
speaking from a position of being Also Crazy, might I suggest an absorbing extracurricular activity? perhaps counting upward to impossibly large numbers…or maybe chess
she says she loves me and i believe her. but i pick apart everything obsessively. i have never bene this neurotic in my whole life. she doesn’t see how crazy i am because i hide it. i almost want to break up because i can’t stand how insecure i feel. shou
-ld i? I love her but I can’t stand myself right now. I’d love your advice.
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my advice is therapy. that’s the thing, honey. you don’t have to give up the possibility of someone loving you because you’re crazy; you just have to get some help to make it work.
I am spending the holiday with my brother and sister-in-law and they are constantly saying how much they dislike gay people. Throwing insults left and right and they don’t know that I am gay. It is making me even more afraid of coming out. What do I do?
i would say be like WHAT’S UP I’M GAY AND I’M OK WITH IT SO YOU CAN EITHER BE OKAY WITH IT, OR YOU CAN SIT HERE AND STARE AT THIS PERSON WHO YOU LOVE AND NOT BE OKAY WITH IT BECAUSE SOCIETY LETS YOU OR BECAUSE OF SOME SHIT THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH ME, YOUR SISTER/IN-LAW WHO IS SITTING HERE IN FRONT OF YOU – ME, THE HUMAN BEING – OR YOU CAN BE AN ASSHOLE BECAUSE OF SOMETHING ELSE, SOMETHING THAT ISN’T RELATED TO YOU AND DOESN’T LOVE YOU LIKE I DO. I LOVE YOU.
THANK YOU AND GOODNIGHT
do you have the original measurements of that brownie recipe? cuz it’d be much easier for me in grams! (planning to eat pot brownies with the girl, which idk if i likelike. let’s gooooo)
you have to buy the book I AM NOT YOUR GOOGLE.
i do love you though. and good luck with the girl.