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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

I happen to be into femmes just as much as I happen to be gay. But people try to set me up with their friends/cousins who are bois who I’m just not attracted to. How do I avoid this uncomfortable scenario without being offensive/appearing shallow?

I don’t think it’s shallow to not be attracted to someone. Can these friends/cousins at least show you a photo before they try to set you up? I mean, that’s standard protocol yeah? You can also use the “She’s not my type” thing and maybe that will get through to them.

Mostly though, don’t feel bad or shallow just because you’re not attracted to someone. It’s totally fine.

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