Effy Stonem (Kaya Scodelario) (by quicheisinsane)
Why do I want to know what it’s like to have sex with men? I have no desire to be in a relationship with them, but I want to know what it’s like to sleep with them. WTF!
Hmm… I can’t speak for myself, but my girlfriend says: “Don’t waste your time”. But you know… it’s fine to be curious!
I went out with her 3 times and we had sexy times. It was super fun for both of us. She just dropped me cos I’m a Christian. She isn’t & I’m private about it. We talked about it twice. I think she’s totes overreacting. How can I convince her it’s NBD?
if it were me, i would go with “i don’t want someone who’s dumb enough to not want me.” i’m atheist and my gf is catholic and i’m certainly not a bitch about it, so.
should I reply to an okcupid message eventho i’m not attracted to her photos because she’s the only one who’s asked me out? i’m new to this o.0
yes. this is similar to applying to jobs you don’t really want because you need the interview practice. this happens.
Used to be, women were beating down my door to be with me. But I had issues. 2yr therapy later- I’m now a great communicator, kinder, super self confident, generally a rad version of the “cool kid” of yore. But… women don’t seem interested anymore. WTF?
they’re interested! they’ve just lived through 2 yrs of other girls breaking and stomping on their hearts. you just have to be the one who isn’t an asshole. it sounds like you can do that. i have a good feeling about your future.
Editor Chat - 10 AM
- Laneia: god this is just embarrassing
- Riese: yes, exactly
- i'm embarrassed
- it's like the tenth time you have a mental breakdown over the same dysfuncitonal relationship
- and you don't even want to tell your friends anymore
- Laneia: yes
- Riese: like you're out of explanations
- for why you haven't left the r'ship or fixed it
- Laneia: you can't even justify your existence at this point
- me: like oh, this again?
- really? this again.
- [....]
- riese: i'm once again trying to get a hostgator support person on livechat
- i am 28th in line
- Laneia: oh that's good news
- that at least 28 other people are having problems too
- [....]
- Laneia: for valentine's day i want a server
- with heart stickers all over it