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I’ve been seeing this girl for 2 weeks. She identifies as bisexual & online dating men&women. We have romantic chemistry & nearly had sex the other nite (3rd date) but i’m worried she’s dating others(M&W).It’s too early for the talk but i need to be safe

If she is dating guys i could be exposed to god knows what.. but i don’t wanna scare her off. Should I keep holding out for sex even though we’re both dying to? It’s only been 2 weeks so it really is too soon for the exclusivity talk i guess? help!

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“If she is dating guys i could be exposed to god knows what..”

SIGH.

i don’t want to yell at you because i’m sure you’re a great person with a smile that could light up the night but ARE YOU FCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS BI-PHOBIC CRAP.
the only time someone hasn’t or couldn’t have been exposed to ‘god knows what’ is if they are virginal. you don’t have to be bisexual to possibly have an STD. even gold star lesbians can get STDs! and they can EVEN get them from OTHER gold star lesbians!

moreover, being bisexual doesn’t automatically make you a walking STD factory OBVIOUSLY.

i want to believe that you’ve read autostraddle, as well as other things like books, and i want to believe that you’re a reasonable, intelligent human. so i’m just going to link to this article that i’m sure you’ve already bookmarked and reference frequently!

http://www.autostraddle.com/safe-sex-for-lesbians-45382

additionally, if you’re ready to have sex, you’re ready to have a talk about sex. it’s not so much about exclusivity as it is the well-being, etc. of your vaginas and mouths and whatever else you had in mind. you know?

people! talking about sex w/r/t safety and responsibility is totally a thing!

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