how do you stop thinking about an ex who you know isn’t thinking about you and doesn’t care enough to?

- unfriend/unfollow from Facebook/Twitter
- block from Facebook if you find yourself obsessively checking their photos/profile
- take time away from any mutual friends; spend time with your older friends
- watch a lot of movies; read a bunch of books

the truth is, if you really aren’t over them none of these things will magically make you stop thinking of them. the only thing the will make the thoughts dissipate is time and maybe a few long heart to hearts with a smart friend. cry it out. eventually one day in the not so distant future you will meet someone who is able to give you all the things your ex wasn’t capable of and you will see how lacking that relationship was in reality.

i’ve been through it. at least your girl wasn’t a musician with music to obsess over via youtube and your ipod. :)

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10 May 2012 ·

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