I'm in love with her. She feels the same way. We've been together for 3 months. By August, I'll need somewhere to live. We're talking about getting an apartment together. Do you think that this stupid/too soon? I can't help thinking of forever with her.

I’m in love with her. She feels the same way. We’ve been together for 3 months. By August, I’ll need somewhere to live. We’re talking about getting an apartment together. Do you think that this stupid/too soon? I can’t help thinking of forever with her.

yes. this is stupid and too soon.

in general, living with your significant other is really a thing you shouldn’t do until/unless you have to.

if you are together forever then there will be plenty of time in your future to fight about dishes and think ‘when she’s gone, i miss her more’ and think ‘here i am right before bed doing my ‘me’ things.’ you will live together in the future and it will be beautiful and worth the wait.

you know how sometimes when you’re going to meet her you maybe spend a little bit too much time picking out a shirt to look like you haven’t really spent any time picking out a shirt but it happens to be a shirt she really likes? you can’t do that when you live together.

she can see all your shirts, is what i’m saying. and they all look better on the floor.

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12/12/10